What do u think I should do?

[Anonymous]

My mom always made me sleep with her mad would make my dad leave or something like that. I always say about how I don’t want too and she blames it on my friends. She tells me she knows that’s not me speaking and that I have to drop whoever it is right away and if she finds out I’ll be in really big trouble. I hate it but whenever I say no (kindly) she says “give me your phone I wanna see what your hiding? Please what do I do? And also I saw this thing on the internet does this count as verbal abuse cause I think she already mentally and verbally abused me. (And my parents are divorced now and my dads been trying to help me stop her but she just won’t)

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not working can u just tell me

[Marshymallow]

Do you not have other rooms? Yes it counts as emotional abuse. You might wanna go live with your dad.

[Asker]

yes I do have my own room and she always thinks I’m hiding something. And I love mad dad but my dad is really struggling with money rn and it’s not the best option and I don’t wanna leave my friends

[Asker]

And she always makes up story’s and try’s to convince me I’m
The crazy one

[Marshymallow]

Well that’s really weird. But in regards to what the other commenter said. Not all moms are like that! Sorry you have to go through that hon. Maybe stand up for yourself more

[Asker]

oh trsut me I do I get yelled at it and shamed for it tho and get told I’m hideing something and I got pushed in a wall “as a joke”

[JohnK123]

Lmao my mom used to do that too. U can’t really argue against them looking Bc then they will suspect something. R u hiding something lol

[Asker]

I don't know not really I just don’t want her to see like drama and
I don’t want her to know
About guys and stuff like that

[JohnK123]

Ooo ooo ooo what do u have a crush or something

[Asker]

Well not really but I’ve dated people before and I’ve called a couple guys hot and it don’t want her seeing that and it’s my phone I bought everything with my own money

[JohnK123]

Oh I get it

[Asker]

yeahh

[JohnK123]

Well I would block him just temporarily or tell him to not text back until u Say so and then delete the convo if u don’t wanna be caught

[SeekingVirginWife]

When you turn 18 you can go live with your father since Mothers today are bad mothers due to feminism.

[Asker]

when I turn 17 and can drive im
Completely moving out. And also wdym mothers are bad today due to feminism?

[SeekingVirginWife]

Read the Mein Kampf for answers.

[SeekingVirginWife]

Use Thomas Dalton's translation

[Asker]

okay is that on google?

[Marshymallow]

Stop putting stuffs in the poor girls head. Don’t read those kind of stuff Abby

[SeekingVirginWife]

The truth is only for those who seek it. A slave Obeys, a Man chooses.

[Asker]

women are slaves wtf?

[Marshymallow]

He just proved why you shouldn’t listen to anything he says.

[Asker]

that’s fucking bullshit

[Asker]

Honeslty fuck off bro

[SeekingVirginWife]

To truly be ignorant, be content with your knowledge. I never called you slave.

[Asker]

i Never Said u did. but u basically just said moms are slaves for their husbands is that not what u just said?

[SeekingVirginWife]

No, I gave you a choice to find answers, of why society as whole suffers today (which millions of married people, including your mother). Take it or leave it. Remember always do your own research. Always question the narrative, never take information for granted.

[Asker]

My mother is divorced

[WraithRogue04]

Do you have a history of doing things that make you untrustworthy?
If not, then I would call this clear emotional abuse
Maybe talk to her seriously about it

[Asker]

no, and I agree but she won’t do whatever!

[Deku2009]

well is there anything on your phone or you chatting with that you want to hide?

[Asker]

hell yeah I already know how to tho

[Deku2009]

Oh ok , it’s your life your mom has no right to stop ya from what your doing.

[Asker]

exacelt tyy