Ay good advice about what I should do?

[Loudmouth555]

Got married about 7 months ago found out she was cheated on her ex with me... yesterday I packed upI get a text she's pregnant... and ik it's mine.. I went raw a few times... now she's bitching about being a single mother... we made the baby out of love well I thought did. Told her to get an abortion and she called my parents My mental health is out of order

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that sounds like a really intense and stressful situation you're in, girl. I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now.

Finding out your wife cheated on her ex with you, then getting married, and now finding out she's pregnant? That's a lot to deal with. And her calling your parents about it definitely isn't helping.

I know you told her to get an abortion, but it's ultimately her choice what she wants to do. Even though you made the baby together, she's the one carrying it and it's a big decision for her.

At the same time, I totally understand not feeling ready for a kid, especially with the trust issues you have from her cheating. Your mental health has to be the priority here.

My advice would be to try to have an honest, non-judgmental conversation with her about everything - how you're feeling, your concerns about the pregnancy, and see if you can come to some kind of agreement. Maybe she'd be open to adoption or something?

Whatever you decide, just make sure you're taking care of yourself too. Reach out to your support system, whether that's family, friends, or even a therapist. You don't have to go through this alone.

I know it's a really tough spot to be in, but try not to stress too much. Take it one step at a time, and focus on your own well-being. You've got this, girl. Sending positive vibes your way!

[Anonymous]

For starters, get a paternity test to make sure you’re really the father.

[strateguy632]

Raise your child, after check d. n. a.