What im supposed to do?

[Anonymous]

So 2 weeks ago my boyfriend died in a car crash.( He was only 18) My life fell apart like literally everything in me has destroyed. We were dating for 3 years and i knew him since we were children. The next day after he died my voice was gone from all the screaming and crying stuff i dont eat much food i throw up when i eat stuff and now when i try to walk my legs start to shake and i fall or sometimes faint. My parents say that im too dramatic but im really scared and angry for all the things that happened to him and me. I don't know what should i do i feel so weak?

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i said he was only eighteen up there I don't know why it showed as an emoji

[vald9inches]

I am sorry for your loss sweetheart that's why i hate living in the US because they force everyone to drive and don't have any public transportation or walkable cities and towns. The only option is to drive and not everyone can drive or wants to drive or afford to have their own car and it kills so many people! Its so fucking sad honestly i really wish they would do something about that. The only thing i can advise you from going through a similar traumatic experience is to just process the pain take it day by day and try to focus on enjoying the little things in life and understand that it would break your boyfriend's heart if his death destroyed your life and its ok to feel sadness and cry over his death but you have to become strong for him and carry on living for him. ❤️

[Asker]

thank you so much that means a lot🤍

[Surely]

The only way that I was able to get through my mother having a stroke and then finding breast cancer. Was to remember that there have been others in my shoes and that there are people that are having a more difficult time than me.

Imagine the firefighter, just recently, that lost 10 family members in a fire that he responded to?

Give yourself time to grieve and don’t bottle things up inside you. It will tear you apart!

Remember, there are professional people to help you through this difficult time.

[Surely]

Thank you for the MHO.
Wishing you well during your time of grief.

[CuteExplorer499]

I’m so sorry sweetie I hope you are able to find the happiness you deserve. 🤗

[Phoenix98]

I’m sorry for your loss that’s tragic.

As for what you should do grieve, a loss like that takes time to heal it’s not gonna happen overnight. So grieve and come to terms with it and eventually accept it.

[Avicenna]

You're understandbly experiencing a lot of stress. I would recommend seeing a grief counselor.

[jshm2]

You are being a dramatic romantic. You were hardly husband and wife and dating for three years? He was just screwing you, he had no intention of keeping you.

Move on, kiddo.

[Asker]

wtf is your problem do you think this would make me feel better?

[FilmGuy93]

Give yourself time to mourn! It's been 2, TWO, WEEKS. Half a month. To mourn the sudden loss of someone who played a huge role in your life for over 3 years.

Let yourself grieve.

[shamac644]

Time heals all wounds. Talk to a person about how you feel and let yourself heal emotionally. It just takes time. You will be ok.

[888theGreat]

My brother died and he was only 55. My other brother fell and broke his neck , but is alive. My mom has Dementia. It is pretty bad these days.

[Asker]

im so sorry to hear that