Is there a certain group or ethnicity of people you don’t date or secretly date because of disapproving family?

[Anonymous]

I gave up on dating a while ago but I just realized something I’ve never had a white girl I know my family wouldn’t approve so I never bothered with them but I’ve met tons of them that I really liked and connected with

I figure it’s worth a shot right? And did any of you ever find the right person outside of your race? I mean I totally get the racial loyalty thing I want my children to look like me but them having lighter skin blue or green eyes and straighter hair is a small price to pay for the right spouse

[crossdressingrihno]

Racially speaking I don’t know if have any that would bother me in the long run
Well my step family is African and I love them like actual family so it’d probably take me a while to date black woman and even longer for me to introduce her to the family (it would so damn awkward)


Outside of race?
The mentally ill (it still depends because things like depression wouldn’t be a deal breaker but things like bipolar disorder would definitely be one)
People who aren’t exactly smart would probably end up just being a hassle in the long run
Wouldn’t date a blonde EVER a certain blonde gremlin has ruined any chance of me even finding a blonde attractive
I wouldn’t call it a definite deal breaker but Abrahamic religions leave a bad taste in my mouth
The last one I’m listing is women without goals. She doesn’t need the goal to be oriented towards a career or world changing event or anything like that honestly it can simply be something like making the perfect macaroni noodle it just needs something she’s passionate about and fights to achieve. Obviously I’d support her when and where she wants me too I just want her to have drive and ambition.

[Th3ft]

My family actually always encouraged me to look for love in all ethnic groups I dated a Haitian girl and then I rebound to a Filipino girl when i broke up with the first. It was was all only phone calls with the rebound but still it was a nice change of pace for a bit. My family started assuming after that that I would move out of country to marry if I couldn’t find a girl here.

[Asker]

I’ve dated outside my race an Argentine, a Vietnamese, and even a Tahitian girl through most of school I was with biracial girls but never a white girl because well a lot of my family is Native American and believe it or not they really hate white people the first time I ever heard the term “ Blue eyed devil” was from them

[Th3ft]

No that makes sense! We have been pretty crappy people throughout the years. But are racist ideas were wrong just like our actions. It is time to move past those ridiculous ideas and accept that everyone is individually good or bad and if you find a good girl no matter her ethnicity you should be able to date her and your family should be happy and proud of you for finding such a dimind.

[DizzyDesii]

Family opinion never mattered to me. Theyre my past. The dude would be my future. If i have to date someone in hiding then i dont deserve them. But my fam is cool with interracial shit although I’ll still always have more love for my own

[Asker]

Well yea that’s ideal my family is super racist lol

[DizzyDesii]

I just feel if people know their fam is racist, they shouldn't intentionally seek an interracial relationship unless they’re willing to cut their family off because no one deserves to be kept a “secret”

[Asker]

But I feel like I’ve missed out on being with some really amazing women because they were white and it’s mostly the older people in my family who won’t approve

[DizzyDesii]

My grandpa was the only one in my fam who was salty about it but he's the same mf who flirts outside his race when we go places and my grandma isn't around. Like i said, cut those certain people in your fam off and date who you want. Or at least get them together. My grandpa said some horrible shit about some Asians crossing the street on my college campus and i made him pullover and i snapped so hard on him. It was hard because he's my best friend in a way. But i dont play about my man. At the time, i was with someone who was Asian and if he said that about them, i could only imagine what he’d say to the guy once i brought him home. So i snapped on his ass and he straightened up. Now he doesn't talk shit at least not in front of me. Girls and guys want a partner who will stand up for them. So standup to your fam and then go for the girl.

[Asker]

Well it’s tradition in my family when we have a baby to show them to their oldest living relatives because it’s a blessing to live to see your grandchildrens children and my grandpa isn’t alive anymore but he was a very dark skinned man and also a very mean man he hated White people but because of him chocolate or dark skinned babies are like gems in my family because they were the only ones that made him smile or happy I got a lot of lightskinned people in my family too so I’m not as black so if I get with a white girl it will show

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao I know lots of black people of all shades who had a kid with someone white and the kid still came out looking mixed. The only time the baby will look pure white is if the dad was already mixed and the mom was white. But being beyonces color and having kids with a white woman will not make the kid look more white than mixed

[Asker]

I said black because I am African American but it’s like Northern Africa like Morocco or Egypt and those people are barely brown seriously if the rock went to Morocco he would be considered dark skinned 😂 that’s why I’m saying if I fuck a white girl its gonna show I been still considering trying to be with a white girl when I saw this old white woman with her mixed peanut butter skinned granddaughter at the store and she was so happy and it made me think they might be upset at first but babies change people https://youtu.be/ODEBI7llq0M

[DizzyDesii]

Im black as well and my skintone is like

[Berethor]

Black and arab. Small price to pay? white is the best looking race on earth.

[Asker]

Not with those noses small lips and flat asses have you never seen a ginger? 😂

[Berethor]

What so good about big lips? yea I saw gingers, blue or green eyes are rare, worth more.

[Asker]

Um kissing and not big humongous lips but full lips and worth more to who? People aren’t for sale ya know

[Anonymous]

I'm white and I don't date white women, not because of my parents' opinions but because I have standards

[Guardian45]

Yes, stupid girls. I'm ethnically-blind.