It's unfortunate but due to the ratio between men and women on dating apps, girls can just get inundated with options. This might cause them to just not put in the necessary effort, or take the time to 'invest' in someone because they can just check their option list.
And, if the chat doesn't grab them, or intrigue them enough then how easy it is to just go to the next one. I think sometimes it might also just be overwhelming which can cause someone to just not get into conversations.
It sucks, but if your profile isn't interesting/attractive enough and your initial conversation is like how everyone else chats, it's not going to shine through all the other profiles pending.
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Why women don't put in work? they barely have to even make a profile and they succeed is why.
It's all about your picture. You could write that you light small puppies on fire and these chicks will throw themselves at you because of the picture. I don't even try with conversation... I usually just call them a derogatory slur and then blam... they're in love. Simps don't get laid on onlyfans but they're kept around to drain the cash out of them. A place like Tinder is no place for a simp, like at all, I'm just being real with you bruah. For me, I'd complain that most of these chicks are actually cheating on a man, but yet they're on a hookup site looking for cock. If I was looking for anything more than a cheap fuck from some chick I'd spit on just to see if she likes it, I wouldn't go to Tinder. They don't want your respect... they want to get choked, called a slut, and pounded into the next universe.
Unfortunately, that’s the way it is. I used to put in effort and that yielded no results, now I put in no effort and get the same results, maybe slightly better because I have low expectations of women now. When women can’t be bothered to put in the smallest bit of effort towards someone they chose to match with, it’s like what’s the point. Just thinking about it makes me sick in the context of a relationship, am I just going to be expected impress them constantly. Too much effort for very little in return, staying single doesn’t seem so bad.
Women get more matches so the opening chat has to be different to grab our attention.
If you get chatting, it should be a two way thing, asking some questions to help find out if you click and if there’s reason to meet.
It shouldn’t be for having discussions. That would happen on the meeting.
Maybe they get bored or realise you aren’t what they expected. Or maybe they think you aren’t serious about things, since you haven’t yet asked if they wish to meet for a coffee?
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Just my personal experience but tinder just isn't meant for potential relationships let alone hook ups for guys. It will always be easier for women on apps like tinder and guys will end up with the short end of the stick. It's probably nothing you did wrong, but tbh you'd probably ha better luck striking a conversation with someone at the supermarket. But good like my dude!
I don't think it's normal. If you like someone you should put as much effort in your messages as the guy you matched with, after all, you chose to like the person. But I heard some actually go there for an ego boost. They kind of ruin it for the rest of us.
I learned pretty quickly that messaging before meeting is a waste of time. If a woman isn't willing to meet you, then drop her and move on.
Have you tried other dating apps that are not tider. It is not good to looking for rwl relationships. My experience with some. Is I only got older mwn men liking me on disabled dating. Then I did try facebook dating is was a missed and hit.
Well, yeah, on any dating app. You get better results IRL, even randomly talking to women than you do on Tinder...
I don't use or care about Tinder, so I don't know for sure
Tinder is only useful for hookups, short of blind luck, its impossible to use it for dating.
Dating the apps are the worst. So over run by scammers... NO LONGER SAFE.
Dating apps only work for men who are basically perfect looking unfortunately
The funniest thing about dating apps is that people continue to use them.
Yes, it's normal, and Tinder is TRASH!
It's normal for simps yes...
Yeah, that's the norm.
Dating apps are terrible for men
In my opinion, it should be 50-50.
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