2 years ago we met from a dating app, but then I rejected him because I thought his looks (and he was heavily weighted) didn't fit me. But he suggested remaining friends, since then on he would come to visit me occasionally throughout the years. However, we didn't stay in touch as much, and only occasionally send texts to each other or call. But now that I have more time, I send more messages and call him. He responds to them. I want to give it another chance. Do you think something is there in his heart for me still? I'm not sure if I like him or not as far as more than friends, but I want to get to know him more. I know him but not that deeply.
Do you actually feel differently about his looks now though? Otherwise, there is really not enough information here to tell if this guy likes you or not. Who initiates messages usually, what's the flow of conversation like? Does he ask you questions? How long / detailed are his answers? Etc, etc...
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I think you need to put your internal speculation and questions aside and focus on building a friendship if you enjoy his presence and company. Don't close yourself off to the possibility of something more than a friendship but just enjoy yourselves and if you feel something, you'll feel it
Sounds like he's not your first choice. Don't string him along if you're going to ditch him for somebody you find more attractive.
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Why do you not say anything? Just ask him out.
Well I know he should just stay friends with you. You by your own admission are not really interested.
He probably a neat guy, but his weight confuses you
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