What girl think about single guys who repost things about wanting a relationship, a girl or a lover?

[Anonymous]

If you like a guy and you realize that he likes posting things like that in his social media. Maybe he looks desperate for you?

[RomanticRealist]

Calling him desperate isn't useful. He may be codependent and too needy though. I think he needs to learn how to happy alone and talk to a therapist about how to reach that point and why he places so much of his worth on relationships. There's no shame in therapy, and no, posting a lot about wanting a great isn't attractive. It makes it look like you want someone to fill a role for your own happiness that you need deeply. It's better for you and the woman you date for you to be happy with your life and see her as an addition and special because you want her - not because you deeply need her to fill some kind of void that troubles you. That void needs your attention to resolve something within yourself. Enjoy life and get into some things for yourself so you can meet her when your cup is full. If she's already there, work on this as best you can (ideally with a therapist).

[Pot8o]

This dumbassery reminds me of employers who tell graduates they only hire people with prior experience.

[Pot8o]

Imagine if men required women to have their shit together before dating them.

[RomanticRealist]

@Pot8o A lot of more mature men do. If you willingly get into relationships with train wrecks, I mean, good for you, but a lot of us don't have time for that drama. I know men who absolutely are looking for what kind of person is beyond the body when they date women. Everyone should require some kind of self development in their partners at this age lol

[Pot8o]

"Mature" = can pick and choose so is a dick to her about her level of ambition.

[RomanticRealist]

@Pot8o

I can see you still have some work to do yourself...

You don't have to be a dick to have your own standards and definitely not to expect to date grown adults over 25ish to have matured to a minimum extent. Also, who said this was specifically about ambition? I mentioned desperation, codependency, and being needy in a negative way in my answer. Whaaat exactly are you talking about, sir?

[Pot8o]

You do, actually. You have to be a douchebag for women to like you to start with. And then you leverage that power to belittle them for their lack of ambition. I see it all the time. Douchebags with girlfriends they're bullying because bullying is in their nature. I don't feel sorry for the girlfriends though, they rejected a lot of guys in favor of this idiocy.

[RomanticRealist]

@Pot8o

A lot of men who aren't douchebags have gfs. I meet them all the time. My boyfriend is not a douchebag either. He's not an angel or doormat with no self-respect, but definitely not a douchebag. He's usually pretty sweet and caring, a bit on the quiet side compared to me, but also a little stubborn and set in his ways. But he is in no way a douchebag.

[Pot8o]

Sure, sure

[WhitneySnow]

If I liked him that wouldn’t bother me as long as he wasn’t blatantly talking about being desperate for sex or a girlfriend. But wanting someone to be with is not a bad thing.

[Guy13]

Sad guy…wht does he think I want him… Obviously he’s “broke” since no one else has grabbed that toy…

[melanieeeB]

I wouldn't talk with him, cause it seems like that's everything his life revolves around and I don't like that lol and like some others already said, it's desperate

[Nikki1989]

It is desperate, but that is not always a bad thing.

[RedStiletto88]

I think he is very needy. That really isn’t good at all

[AsaKyo]

I don't even really care or notice tbhhh lmao
As mean as that sounds..

[Asker]

But if that guy is the guy you saw in person and you liked him, then when you check his Facebook, you find he like sharing content like that.

[Anonymous]

It looks desparate as well as hot

[fonduegirl]

Desperate