How to reassure yourself that someone loves you?

[izmir1215]

*CONTEXT TO QUESTION* (optional)
okay so I got to a rough end with my ex-girlfriend it's not like she was a bad person but the thing is it wasn't supposed to end like that, things ended because of some family issues she still likes me, and wishes me well I know so because if not with me, she's an amazing person I got over her a few months back and now I'm in another relationship the thing is I do know that my current one loves me too and she is the person I can trust but sometimes she does things that sync with what my ex did and it makes me recall if my current one will do the same because honestly I just can't see myself break down like that last time again I just don't want someone to hurt me like that again because it was the first time I got that attached with someone and now it seems like this is the same thing over again

[Truthatanycost]

Most women aren't capable of loving you, only what you provide. What you need to do is stop wasting time in these relationships and expend all of that energy into your life purpose, wealth, health and self. You are making the same mistake most young men are making... chasing women instead of chasing purpose.

'I do know that my current one loves me too and she is the person I can trust'

She is not capable of loving you, only how you make her feel, or what you provide for her. Get on your purpose!

[Guy13]

You should investigate with an explanation the common behavior that you mentioned. That behavior made you think of Ex. You recognized it. What is it ⁉️

[izmir1215]

it wasn't something alarming it is sweet nonetheless it's just that I'm reluctant to do things I did with my ex with her because I don't want her to think I'm treating her like she is an embodiment of someone else, my current girlfriend she usually says or does some romantical things similar to my ex it all makes me wonder if we will end up the same way as I did in past and I for one do not want her to feel like I'm treating her thinking she's my ex i love her for who she is

[Guy13]

I wouldn’t either…And please don’t ever talk about her…and know she’s Testing you when she asks about your Ex…”why would you think I even consider her…with you in my life?”💪-IN PERSON not text. Got it?

[izmir1215]

SIR THIS IS AMAZING THANK YOU VERY MUCH IT MAKES SENSE NOW I HAVE TO REASSURE HER TO MAKE THE TRUST BOND WITHIN!

[Guy13]

Chill…lead from the backseat.. don’t overdo it. Full day dates that are Facebook friendly without discussion is an excellent way to create emotional connection and trust.
She needs to be able to link the moment and place…the girlfriends do.
For instance, not having 📺 or Social Media…I just took this lady friend to a park. Had no clue going in circles made her sick…but I forced her on the carousel and held her hand. So the pics of carousel, her on horse, and my hand cupping hers for Facebook did not need a caption…. Like that-in the things that you two do.

[Anonymous]

If you have to question it then it is probably not true.

[izmir1215]

I do like her a lot but it's just the memories, although I agree with you I did have the same views on this.

[SnowedIn]

You have to trust, which is hard. You also absolutely cannot compare to your ex. The good or the bad. This is not a car where you can compare from model to model. Each is unique. Trust and communicate a LOT. be patient. Also know that relationships fail and that's actually okay.

[Avicenna]

Have her tell you she does

[Iron_Man]

Because they will keep telling you