1. The more partners someone has had, the less capable they are to emotionally pair bond with someone long term. Statistics prove it to be true that the more partners someone has had, the chance of divorce increases substantially.
2. If they were promiscuous/had ONS/friends with benefits they don't think of sex as part of a special unique bond between them so the other person won't feel special or valued. (Even one time of being promiscuous/hook up/ONS is worse than 5 previous romantic partners because it shows her morals.)
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you could equally ask why girls are so obsessed with him committing to a relationship before sex. it's things we care about when looking for a partner. like if you're looking for a romantic long term partner for a relationship, obviously you're not gonna get with a chick that fucks the next dude a week later right? that's why they ask about previous partners. in order to make estimations about her lifestyle and the likelyhood of her being a good choice.
it's pure insecurity. they're afraid they might not be able to keep up & that the woman realises they're a subpar partner and leaves them. And to cloak their weak character they hide it under a pretense of "women make worse partners if they had previous relationships"
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Let me explain the four big reasons why it matters to a man when dealing with a woman. Buckle up, this is gonna take a while.
1) Men and Women are both biologically hardwired to be attracted and disgusted by certain things. It just so happens that one of the things we guys are instinctively disgusted by are promiscuous women as our girlfriend and/or wife. That's just our nature, just like how it's in a woman's nature to look for a man who can provide and protect. Now when it comes to just sex, they won't care, but a committed relationship is a whole different ballpark.
2) Stats show that the higher a woman's body count, the more likely she will initiate breakups ans divorces. AND it's more likely she will have mental problems down the long run. You lose your ability to pair bond with every new sexual partner you have, and that's what helps relationships work through tough times... or in general.
3) When you (a woman) are in a relationship with a man, you are becoming a representation of that man, whether you know it or not. That means that what you say or do is gonna affect him to. So therefore, if you're a hoe, or you say or do some crazy and stupid stuff, not only are you putting yourself in a bad light, but you're putting your boyfriend/husband in a bad light. Because everyone is gonna be like, "This crazy girl is his?" or "This hoe is who he is taking seriously?" That is embarrassing for any man, even if he won't admit it to others or himself.
4) THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT REASON. There is a reason why since the dawn of time, men have demanded that the woman they take seriously are virgins. Not all guys nowadays want virgins now, but still want lower body counts from the woman they take seriously. And the reason why is because they want to ensure paternity. I assume I would be correct if I were to say that a deep dark fear for a lot of women is being r@ped in a dark alley by some creep. That deep feeling of fear that you get, the male equivalent to that is when he busts his ass, investing his blood, sweat, and tears into raising a child, and then finding out one day that the kid was never his. That's why guys have an issue with taking promiscuous women seriously. Because if you take a promiscuous woman seriously, and she gets pregnant, there's a good chance that child may not be yours.So, when a man is looking at a woman to take seriously, he is gonna want to know your body count, because your body count correlates to your level of promiscuity. If you have a high body count, it means you're promiscuous. And if you're promiscuous, you're a bad bet for a long term relationship. And now you know the reasons why.
Many people women included are botherd by body count simple just find someone that has the same mindset as yourself
It is just how men are. A man with decent success will never look for a 304 past one night stands or temporary relationships. Deffo not marriage. It is also partly biological and spiritual.
Because a man is like a key, a woman is like a lock, I don't want a relationship with a ho.
we are not all worried about ex's it's all down to what comes out if we did it this way or that way
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