I'm getting annoyed that my boyfriend has had these experiences and I haven't?

[Anonymous]

We just started making things official. But he wants to go on a double date with his guy friend and his girlfriend but my boyfriend already took his ex to have a double date with his friend and that guys girlfriend.

Then my boyfriend loves tattoos and later on in time he wants me to give him one. But two of his exs already gave him tattoos. He just covered them up.

I want my experience to be different. I don't want to do the same things like his exs did. It annoys me.

[LazerBean]

Break up with him then. More than likely you're just going to be another ex like them anyway. But you're either going to have to deal with it and stop complaining or break up with him.

[Asker]

Is it bad that it's a pattern though?

[LazerBean]

Yup, and he's not likely going to change.

[AviatorTom]

If you don't like doing what your boyfriend likes, and it's more important what you like, this guy is not for you. Either rethink what you're doing, or break up and find a guy you can control... that seems to be what you want.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

I'll never understand what that means "making things official"

It's like, weren't you already 'together", LMAO

[Asker]

I mean yeah we were together but now we're in a relationship lol

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

but isn't that just redundant. you were already together

labels are for soup cans, not people

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

Lets put it this way. If he had been hanging out with other girls, even fucking them, would you have considered it "cheating" before you "made it official"

[Bethany22]

Sounds like he's not over his ex, and he's just using you as a placeholder to reminisce about her

[Anonymous]

You complain about all of this, but this is what you chose and this is what you're attracted to... experience.

[Anonymous]

tattoo his forehead saying YOU SUCK or LOSER or he sucks dicks for $$$

[sheenagwapa]

then don't. find something else