Guys, will an older woman who’s still a virgin drive you away or scare/turn you off? (Page 2)
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Regardless of her reasoning, I would not be interested in someone that age. I want someone to have healthy kids with and raise a family together so I'm not really interested in starting a NEW relationship with someone past 30.
It wouldn't but I would go through some struggle with her. Its a lot work and usually women like that are not very simple. There expectations are super high and etc. How do I know. Well I dated virgins and they are all the same
It's not so much about virginity, but more about the age. Around the age of 32 pregnancy becomes much harder and a lot of men, myself included, look towards starting families.
Whether a virgin or no isn't scary. It's really still just down to whether we really like each other or no. Would I be curious as to why? You betcha.
That's not a turn off 🙂 I'm 20 and I haven't had sex either. Not sure I ever will... But you being a virgin isn't going to scare me away
You never will have sex?
It's doubtful. I've had a few girlfriends in the past but never made a move (to shy) and I'm still not making moves. Yet, there is the problem that most women around where I am don't find me attractive.
Though, I know I'm still young, but I do have doubts. Most everyone I knew from school has most definitely had sex already.
I honestly don't understand why women say that men are scared of them when they don't find them attractive. I think it's just an ego statement, not one based on evidence.
Regardless, a 35 year old virgin is not at all intimidating.
I’m not sure it would be a fear reaction, but I’d definitely want to know the story why. Depending on the reason it would matter or it wouldn’t.
i'd respect her wishes and never have sex with her
She wouldn't scare me away. I'm sure she has good reasons why she's still a virgin, and we might be able to find a nice way to change that.
No, a 35 to 40 year old female virgin would not drive me away, scare me, or turn me off. Can't say the same thing would apply with a MALE virgin.
“Scared”… No man is “scared” or a virgin female, regardless of her age.
Many may simply not want to deal with whatever game she is playing or hoops she expects to put out and go for an easier pussy.
Some woman like myself are saving their selves for marriage
@PinkRose24 thats great for you… but don’t expect men to do all the bullshit you expect if you don’t do the one thing they expect
Guys have always been kind and respectful to me. I don't know what you're talking about.
I'm not a guy, but that's a weird reason to not date someone, or lose interest
A 35 yr old virgin turns them off but an under 20 girl virgin gets them excited. Its really gross.
I’ll take the first lol
Um, so first of of 30 years old is already hitting the wall. So while it's nice that she's a virgin, she's also too old.
No. Why would that drive me away? Why would that drive anyone away? That's like saying they would rather have some that slept with 3792 people than 5.
Because virgins are boring in bed.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 then teach them. Then it'll be fun.
I have. Not many, over my life had two virgin girls, one of them a serious relationship. I gladly taught her. Still the first few times are always lacking.
If thats the baises of there personality then yeah it would be
They probably don't want to waste their time cracking a safe no guy has managed in 20 years.
Not me bring her on!!! Gets me hard just thinking about it!!
There’s nothing wrong about being a virgin at any age. Everyone can wait as long as they want/need. I’m still waiting until marriage.
I agree man its just I don’t know if I could wait still keep waiting until I’m 34
@WhiteBoyChill I’m 34 and still waiting. I know it’s hard, but will be worth it.
It's the whole woman who is of interest. Including her past. Is it because she murdered all of her previous suitors or just has high standards?