Guys, Would a girl being a virgin at 33 scare away a guy from a potential relationship with her?

[Anonymous]

Assuming the girl is a virgin for no reason other than she just hasn’t found someone she’s comfortable to do it with. She’s not particularly religious. She’s attractive and not overweight or anything like that. She’s educated, has a good job, owns a home, has a lot of close friends, etc. She just hasn’t had the right opportunity.

[ohsheeT]

No not at all I wouldn't scare me away

And I would respect that because I mean that is just totally something that's so hard to do nowadays and I would treat that person is hey you're stronger than me that's for damn sure
And your moral values and ethics are way better than mine so

Have you treated just like that I'd be curious to understand why

And to be honest even if things worked out good and the very first time that we were going to make love that option of actually doing it would still be there and I would make a deal with her that we could do anything and everything except penetration the very first time just to make sure that's what she really wanted to do

Just for the fact that she's waiting that long

And if it wasn't me if it was some other guy I would hope that he would be perfect for her because the first time it has to be the best time because it will change so many different things with the girl that it's unreal if the guy is selfish and only thinking of himself she's going to have a bad experience and she's going to carry that around for a long time

If she has a good experience and she's going to want to do it more often and she's going to understand what it's like to become one with somebody

[DaveJord]

I would say a woman at the age of 33 that is still a virgin, only because she has not found any man, she is comfortable with is an extreme RED FLAG!

A woman that makes it into 30's and is still a virgin, just because she has had the right opportunity... sounds like BS to me. There is a lot more than just that going.

[artgorgeous]

In this case you should stop waiting for the opportunity and just make it happen. It won't happen if you just sit and wait. Beauty does not last forever and devaluates over time. Do it now until it's too late. Do not wait for a special moment, make this moment.

[Anonymous]

It would definitely give most guys pause. Not because it's a problem. But because it could be a sign of a deeper problem. Because unless she's been locked away in a tower she's had interaction with men. And one has to wonder why none of them were ever good enough for her.

[Asker]

Maybe she should ask herself that and reevaluate herself …

[Berethor]

Well I would marry a woman like that, I don't want to marry a ho, ho is not wife material. :)

https://www.youtube.com/embed/oDaaAI6keSw

[Drumlin2001]

I would have some empathy. I was a virgin till 35. I could give it a go. Though I suppose I would wonder if she would want kids. I've had 2, and not having more

[Huntingnfishin]

If she's waited that long chances are nothing you can do will be the perfect once in a lifetime moment for her. So it does seem like it would leave a lot of room for disappointment and failure

[BarryLiverstone]

Would be curious why that’s so important to her and what opportunities she has had

[DextroShade]

Its sounds like she wasted her best years chasing a career instead finding a man like she was supposed to. Men know there is likely something wrong with her.

[EyesOfGod]

I mean that would be kinda a red flag (religious) or it could be your life never really led to the opposite sex.

[gorydetails]

I can't imagine a woman at 33 wouldn't lack opportunities.

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

As someone who is 31 and in the same boat, it sounds good to me.

[Emilianorodríguez]

I like virgin women but I don't like old women.

[Anonymous]

It's only a deal breaker if she doesn't want to have sex or if she's saving it for marriage

[Jdodkfndosn]

No if just considering this on its own

[shortster]

Nope

[In_Trance]

Absolutely

[Jmmmfi4]

It's fine