I'm no longer in a relationship with this person anymore.
This guy that I use to be in a relationship with physically & emotionally abused me.
He would tell me all the time that he loves me, that he supports my anxiety & medical issues. But at the same time whenever I would have an anxiety attack or my medical issues would flare up he would throw it back in my face and say "I didn't signup for a unwell partner. You need help, sort your issues out."
Other things that were quite disturbing is I found he kept girls from his past on his Facebook friend list. These girls aren't even his friends, he has never meet them, he only added them because they constantly post photos & videos of themselves half naked. When I discovered this, I told him to delete & block them because it hurts me. His response was " Fuxk off. Leave me alone. That's my personal space. You are so insecure. Sounds more like a you problem, than a me problem."
He also use to talk constantly about how sexy his ex girlfriend is. He would also show me half naked photos and videos of his sister on her fb page. I thought that was extremely disturbing but tried my best to not think of the worst case scenario, so I let it go.
Then later on I was trying to explain to him that it really upsets me why he thinks random half naked girls on fb are more important than me. I also told him that he should follow his brother's example and block the random girls & his sister because of all the sexual content they post.
His response was "My sister is so much better looking than you! If you were to stand next to her, my sister has bigger/better boobs than you & she has a better ass than you."
Immediately after I heard all that, I broke up with him. I just wanted to know if anyone else has been a relationship where their partner who was into gaslighting & being a narcissist?