So I randomly passed by a caffeé during a walk and a friend called out from inside, and I stopped to say hi, and he wasn't alone, there was another guy with him, and 4 other girls, of which, only one I was acquainted with but we're not exactly friends, and one of the other 3 was the other guys' sister.
They insisted I sit w/them, so I did, ordered, and an hour passed by. I introduced myself to the strangers, and that was all. I barely spoke. The guys were talking about football, and the girls talked about various things, there was music so I couldn't really hear.
I'm an introvert, had two relationships during highschool and a share of tries with other girls after, but it would an understatement if I said I was unsuccessful. I'm no good with girls, or anyone for that matter. I just accept things for how they are and I don't get a need to seek something. In this case, I have accepted that I can't flirt, and I don't.
Anyway back to the story. Apparently, the other guy has a birthday party next week, and he invites me to go. And I'm like, I'm not sure I can make it, I have work to do (on the inside I'm like I'm def not going, I don't know these people), but these two girls and my friend like start begging me to go, It's in the evening, the next day is Sunday so it's no problem if I stay out late... And I'm like, I'll see, and one of them says make sure to come, not many people will be there anyways so It's not gonna be interesting, and I don't know what hit me but I said, Well, you won't be missing out on anything if I don't come. And they all just looked at me, and my friend just said, OK people, let's go, and we stood up and left. I continued my way, they left the other way, and that last one, again just yelled out "come to the party". I just smiled and turned around.
So, was I right to react this way, and should I go to the party? I know I'll just sit quiet in a corner, get drunk by myself and I'll go away without saying goodbye.
