Guys what makes you want to take a woman out on a proper date to a nice restaurant versus somewhere casual? Is it based on what caliber woman she is?

[Anonymous]

[sassy_receptor]

it’s usually not based on caliber of the woman. it has to do with the guy’s mindset on chivalry and how much they value women. the caliber of man. if he’s taking you on a proper date, he wants to impress you and make you feel wanted/desired. traits of a good man because good men are chivalrous and respectful. if he’s taking you on mediocre dates, expect mediocre effort throughout the relationship. it will not get better and most mediocre men expect to put little effort into the relationship but get maximum effort from you in return. these are the type of men who will want you to pay half of the bills but expect you to do all of the house chores and child care taking work on your own while all they do is pay the other half of bills.


don’t date this type of men and certainly don’t marry them. you’ll just become a married single mother who’s a full time maid.

[Asker]

Wow this is an amazing perspective. Thanks for sharing this girl.

[D-Pad_Chad]

I won't. Not at first, maybe a coffee shop or a walk in the park, despite what that other woman said just because a guy starts there doesn't set the tone for the relationship.

Men nowadays are more cautious, look up foodie calls (it's a real thing), guy's want to be chivalrous, but in doing so women have taken advantage of them, not all women course, but enough that they killed it. So most men will wait to see if she's serious about the relationship before shelling out for anything fancy.

This also tells a lot about the taste of the women, is she humble, will she be there if we struggle or will she complain and leave etc... but each guy is different in how they approach this issue.

I myself wouldn't go anywhere fancy for at least a month, not until I got to know her well enough.

[Guy13]

Some guys have a cafeteria taste. Some fast foods. Some steaks 🥩 🐟 and seafood 🦞.

The girls standards push this question. If junk out everywhere with the look of bar girl than classic, shapely, and cute woman then you eat at comparable places.
Standards and expectations have to naturally meet.

[Wubs3000]

Restaurants are really boring in my opinion. I would rather chill at home with them and watch movies and play games or something

[Wubs3000]

Not saying that restaurants are a no go ever, just that they aren't my go to.

[Anonymous]

I do this for passing my free time...