A few months ago I decided to start dating again. Yesterday I was dating a guy and first thing he mentioned was what I should dress more sexy because I was too “serious” and covered. Im the kind of woman that believes that when a woman has everything to flaunt but chooses not to show is classy and good taste. I’m under the impression guys will always go for women who dress more sexy. What do you think?
Classy FOR SURE. In fact, I have a long-ass theory about this. DM me if you want me to ramble on about it.
Now, generally, the girl dressed 'sexy' WILL receive more obvious male attention. But it's the wrong kind of attention. THese are often the girls who complain that lots of men want to fuck them, but none of them want a relationship. Dressing sexy is attractive... but only if you're primarily interested in fucking.
Looking for a relationship, generally, guys want EXACTLY what you describe as the way yourself as being: "when a woman has everything to flaunt but chooses not to show is classy and good taste"
Yes. You are 100% exactly right about that.
It's my personal hypothesis that it's EXACTLY this difference that makes a guy think an attractive girl as 'relationship material' as opposed to someone they just want to fuck.
Don't let this one guy trip-you-up. You're totally right in your original philosophy. Totally right. Don't change that, unless you're just looking for 'fun'... in which case, DO dress more 'sexy'. But not if you're dating in hopes things develop into a relationship... definitely don't change a thing. 🙂
Depends, as your "classy" might be my "trashy". You probably looked like a school teacher taking her pupil on a date; is what he's saying.
It's more about style, and you've never had it on your date. You're wrong in your pretensions of what "classy" and "good taste" is.
More interesting to read your date has told you to your face your dress sense is, crap. But you were too far up your own ass to understand, and you took it with a smile.
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Regardless of what I consider classy, trashy, sexy; that is not really the main question of my post. Obviously the guy I dated has a taste for sexy/trashy and that is okay, as a man is okay to have preference and good thing he let me know before anything. I like to be clean and dress properly for any occasion simply because that makes me feel comfortable and confident, I don’t think I’d feel the same way with a mini skirt and a strapless shirt 🤷🏻♀️. I don’t need additional attention by dressing so revealing, I already have attention just by being a woman.
Classy can be sexy, but demure. The general sense of classy in younger generations is tasteless, unsophisticated & lacking quality. Younger average guys speak of "being less covered up" as their computer screens have conditioned them to see bare women on the instant. If you surround yourself with men who are higher earners, you will see more "classy covered up" women.
I’m saying somewhere in between. The girl in the first pic looks slutty. That’s ok if she’s someone else is dude I can look at her tits, but if she’s my girl than no that’s too much. The second one appears as though she old. It makes me think she’s wearing a shawl or a granny blanket.
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