Is it no? couldn’t understand the hint?

[Charlesbrandonf]

A girl I’ve been talking to a while and went on few dates just told me she don’t think we are a good match on her end. And thinks she is 3rd of what iam. Does this means, she is saying no to me? I mean I think she is perfect for me.

[fembotnpc777]

Is she the only girl you're seeing? Is she seeing other guys. This is the most important factor as to what's going on.

[Charlesbrandonf]

I don’t know if she is seeing other guys, we are not in a relationship, when I’m around her she pays full attention to me, she remembers everything I say to her. She is not the only girl I’m seeing. I don’t think she is also talking only to me. She made posts being with other guys in between. Now my feelings became strong and I’ve told her. And she initially showed interest in my feelings, now she says she feels we are not a good match.

[fembotnpc777]

It doesn't matter if you aren't in a relationship. She likes you, and the other girls are giving her doubts as to whether the feelings are mutual. Brains don't rationalize "in a relationship" "not in a relationship". Humans run on instincts and emotions.

Your last sentence sounds too complicated. I would emotionally check out, personally, because I'm not going to wrestle with someone's emotions to get them to like me throughout a relationship.

[Guy13]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/rF4BCMs-8BE

Test…this is only…

[Charlesbrandonf]

I watched it please help me understand your point

[Guy13]

You are being tested. This is only a test. Figure out how to handle it.

[Charlesbrandonf]

Watched it couple of times written down the words. Still don’t get how to handle my situation. Is she playing hard?

[Guy13]

She's simply testing you to see if you are serious and can take a little heat. Check out the "I'm Fine" piece in sliding window on website.

[Charlesbrandonf]

Just saw her status with another man that she was seeing before. So I’m taking it as rejection for me and redirecting myself.

[Guy13]

Sounds right 👍👍