Do you think God keeps his unmarried women single?

[jennifer_bloom]

Like I know that among women that aren’t religious, they might date 19 guys in 3 years, I know someone who dated 40 before their 20th birthday. Me, I look decent and can’t even get a decent guy to have coffee with. I would say I’m above average for some guys and unattractive for other guys. I could probably get a dozen older boyfriends at a mechanic shop but if you put me with 20 year old college students at Yale, I might get 400 rejections in 4 years.

[inhua]

the human lifespan isn't meant to be over 100 years. it's meant to only be 40 years but thanks to diet and medicine, we can live longer.

that being said, humans actually have a short window when it comes to finding a mate. men can extend their window not only because fertility window = mortality window but also due to attractive factors that increase or should increase with age e. g. wisdom, maturity, intelligence whereas attractive factors for women are usually found in younger women e. g. fertility, youthfulness, energy etc.

God gives everyone an opportunity but whether you choose to use or waste that opportunity is up to you.

[Berethor]

Women hit the wall at those ages, men prefer young women because of looks and fertility.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like God is telling you that you need to lower the bar.

[Jennz6]

I don’t understand the question