most common form of cheating is that he cheats with her best friend.
They shouldn't be friends with homewreckers or cheaters. If they are then it is partially their own fault when something bad happens to their relationship since they purposely brought those kinds of people into their lives.
I have a rule that when in a relationship, if your SO isn't present, you shouldn't be letting their friends in or hanging out with them. I refuse to go inside of a house of an SO's friends if she isn't there with me, and I wouldn't let them in mine either. It is easier to prevent potential problems or even misunderstandings than it is to repair damage after the fact.
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There are many reasons people climb mountains, but the one reason that is NOT why they do is to see the mountain; when you're so close to something that you're on top of it, you CAN'T see it- not for all that it is, anyway. It's no different from being in a relationship; when you're THAT closely involved with someone, you're too close to see what may be glaring flaws to someone (or, on the other hand, what may be great virtues). Letting your partner meet your friends and your family can give you some real insight into them by having people who know you give their perspective.
And bluntly, if they're going to cheat on you, it's better to learn quickly, before you get too attached.
Ofc, my exes met my besties. No cheat.
My bestie's ex asked me to be his girlfriend after they broke up and been textin me a lot while they were still together. I declined him.
Its all about every person's characters. doesn't need to always about our girlies. If they attracted to new girls while he's still having a girlfriend, and still wanna make them 'mine', then he's sick.
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I don’t have a boyfriend nor plan on dating anyone so I guess that solves the cheating issue. now if I ever went more crazy and got in a relationship, I would introduce him to any close friends I have at the time no matter what gender they are.
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That’s not true most people when they cheat don’t cheat with there partners best friend. And yes absolutely. My girlfriends are good judges of character I’d want to know if they didn’t like him.
I mean I’m not seeing anyone currently. But yeah they meet my friends, simply because most of my friends are considered family and I won’t be ditching them for a guy.
Seeings how all my female friends are trans women, I don’t think so. Plus my partner is demisexual so I doubt he would cheat on me unless he stopped loving me, and at that point the relationship would already be over and therefore it’s not cheating.
Yeah of course. He’s met all of my friends, why wouldn’t he? It would be weird if he had never met them in my opinion. I trust him so why not
I doubt that’s the most common form of cheating lol but I think the idea of letting your friends meet your partner is a necessary evil, but not great in any case
Quite naturally my boyfriend (now husband) got to meet the majority, if not all of my female friends.
Nope! Very rare a women best friend is truly a friend. Especially when it comes to the realm of you and your man.
If you feel such action is necessary, perhaps you should have spent more time qualifying the guy before you committed to a relationship with him.
No. I don’t trust female friends at all. Unless I’ve known them for YEARS (Two of my best friends) and know they’re respectful of me and my boundaries and have their own things then maybe yes I would introduce them.
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Of course. He’s met all of my friends at some point.
If my girlfriend pulled that crap she would get the gate... such bullshit.
Well most of them. He'll meet my respectful and loyal friends, the funny friends, the caring ones, but NOT the lewd ones. No way.
A relationship meant to last forever will no matter the persons around... so why not... my friends obviously have to know him
I think at some point it would start to become weird if she just never let me be around her friends
I don’t let anyone im dating meet my friends they’re all taller , richer , funnier and better looking I say that not in a homoerotic way but as an acknowledgement of my competition
Then those are not people u want to be dating or be friends with.
Sure because my boyfriend is friends with other girls and I don't mind
Ya, one even lives w us. I'm not worried. He's not even into women.
Yeah, but I'm a loner so, I really don't have friends just acquaintances.
Why do people date people whom they do not trust?
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