How do I show a girl that I am not into the hookup culture? (Page 2)
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Let her know that you want a relationship ie you want her to be your girlfriend. As opposed to just wanting to get into her pants. Focus on emphasising that you want a relationship with her.
Ask her for coffee. Take time getting to know her before deciding you want a relationship with her. Find out what her aspirations are in life.
You reminded me of my boyfriend... that's exactly how he thinks and acts... and we also met at work so cute!!!
Just be careful with her and be gentleman
Be honest and upfront. She might find that refreshing. If she doesn’t she wasn’t a good fit for you.
Be direct. Mention you want a romantic long term relationship but aren't into hookup culture. Love it
Because people interpret thing differently... don't risk her thinking she is friend zoned either so be direct
Tell her
"Im a family man and I am dating with the intention to find the ideal partner to start a family with."
That'll tell her all she needs to know about you.
Just say it none of this beat around the bush bullshit. Ask her out if she goes on a couple dates etc tell her this is how you are.
If she was really into you she wouldn't give a dman if you fucked a billion women. She would let you fuck her just as much. This is her turning you into a circus animal jumping through her hoops.
It doesn't matter. Most women ARE into the hookup culture. So if you aren't, they won't be interested. They don't want a boyfriend; they just want a dick.
Don't bother, focusing on what you DON'T want will make your behavior seem contrived. Just focus on what you DO want and flirt your ass off.
Do never push for sex, and approach carefully, at a moderate pace.
That's all you need.
Wishing to you that it's not she the one into bare sex.
You show them by not pressuring them for sex. Invite her to lunch or coffee or dinner.
Nice follow up idea
If you have the attitude that you are somehow morally superior to other men your age, lose it. It's not attractive.
Okay, I removed my like from your comment, weirdo.
@LovingLoverReturned but it's true. Claiming that you are superior to others is not attractive. What's attractive? Demonstrating that one is superior to others through consistent behavior.
I want a girl who we can be friends and some romance, but wait to marriage for anything sexual between us.
go on dates and be a gentleman... don't suggest anything about sex in short learn to wait
Imagine if girls asked this question meow I mean more
World would have been so much butter I mean better
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Don't push anything. Be authentic to the person you really are. Live up to your word.
dont worry, hookup or not women will always get emotionally attached to your ass after just one night of sex
Girls make rules for guys they don’t want
and break rules for guys they want.
If a girl wants a guy, she will fuck him without a lot of games.
If she doesn’t really like him, she will play games and have him “prove” himself.
Take it slow with her like becoming friends then asking her out on a date. Maybe hang out after work for coffee or a lunch break.
100% this is another woman pretending to be a man on GAG