Guys, Would you rather date a girl who likes you or a girl who needs you?

[jennifer_bloom]

Girl who likes you

Girl who needs you

Other

[Rkbleezy]

Honestly I would prefer a girl who needs me. Because a girl can "Like" multiple guys at once, so that doesn't mean that she will be loyal, respectful, loving, caring, etc. Doesn't mean she wouldn't be good, but still your kind of tossing it up. But if she "Needs" you, that means that she can't find what she needs in other men. Therefore she would be inherently loyal to you in order to stay with you. And I value Loyalty over all other traits. You can love me and still go behind my back. Loyalty is an action, you can love or hate me and still have my back.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

I get your point but you are DEAD WRONG and let me explain why. A girl who "needs" you will be one that probably has depression or other shit going in her life (like dept) and just needs someone to take care of her. With the first mistakes you do, she'll try to look somewhere else, to a better one.

For example, if she was poor and had dept all her life, she may develop a "money complex" so when she finds someone with more money, she'll leave you.

So you want to feel safe that she won't leave you and her needing you isn't even the most safe option, lol!

[Rkbleezy]

@YourFavoriteFriend I guess I am using "need" in the sense that she can't just find it in someone else

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Then I guess, that would also fall in the "like" category. So no matter how you put it, you want her to "like" you even tho she has other options.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Girl who likes me. Nobody wanted to date me when I had depression and needed someone to help me fix it and have a better life. So, I learnt 2 things the hard way:

1) Neediness and depression shows out and it's SUPER unatractive

2) You must fix your problems first before you get into a relationship

[TheUniqueOne96]

Girl who likes you.

I don't want her to totally need me, but she'd have to want and show the willingness to want to be with me.

[Voldra]

A woman that both likes me & needs me but not too clingy :p

[ChattyGuy43]

I'd rather be liked than wanted, wanted sounds like she's desperate and slightly stalkie to me

[AdmiralSirJohn]

A girl willing to date me to begin with would be a good start.

[mT2359]

A girls who needs to like me Or likes to need me... Why not both?

[TadCurious]

A girl who likes me. Of course.

[WildCard42]

A woman who loves me.

[TroyDT2]

Likes. Needs is too much pressure.