the world would definetley be a much better place if women approached men or asked men out just as much as men did to women, if women were the initiators far more often, but i know thats delusional thinking
@PizzaPieMamaBear I am referring to before asking her out. Obviously if she says 'yes' I'll know she is interested. Also, what do you call flirting? Guys and girls typically have very different opinions on the definition..
@spartan55 touching you arm when she talks to you, although I touch everyone’s arm so she if she’s like that with everyone. Laughing at you jokes, smiling at you, sitting next to you/close to you coming up to you when others are around. Finding reasons to be near you and compliment you
This type of thinking is outdated. Most guys don’t approach anymore because it’s unclear when and where it’s taboo to do so. Women need to step up and either send clear messages or do the asking.
Of course it is and when it has I always take it as a huge compliment - even if I'm not interested. And guys, if a female does take that chance on you - be gracious.
When I was younger, I was clueless and had been asked out by a few girls since I was missing the signals they were sending. So ya, it is ok in my opinion.
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Never made them mad when I did it. What is the harm in letting them now that you like them? You made their day.
the world would definetley be a much better place if women approached men or asked men out just as much as men did to women, if women were the initiators far more often, but i know thats delusional thinking
Why wouldn't it be, I've asked out dozens of guys.
I actually ask my husband out on our first date when we were in the 9th grade.
Eeeeewwww I just threw up in my mouth a little bit. We’re the pretty ones they ask us out
Ha, yeah right...
@spartan55 what?
@PizzaPieMamaBear
So how do we know if you are interested?
@spartan55 if she flirts with you and says YES to you asking her out
@PizzaPieMamaBear
I am referring to before asking her out. Obviously if she says 'yes' I'll know she is interested. Also, what do you call flirting? Guys and girls typically have very different opinions on the definition..
@spartan55 don’t be a pig about it be playful with her tell her how nice she looks lots of compliments make her laugh etc
@PizzaPieMamaBear
I get that part, it's the recognizing when a woman is flirting. It isn't always obvious.
@spartan55 it shouldn’t be that hard to tell
@PizzaPieMamaBear
Women's idea of obvious doesn't register with guys... i hope you know that...
@spartan55 then I don’t know what to tell ya all we can do is drop clues
My opinion on this is hardly unique. What are some examples I'd these 'clues'
And don't say staring... that's a joke.
@spartan55 touching you arm when she talks to you, although I touch everyone’s arm so she if she’s like that with everyone. Laughing at you jokes, smiling at you, sitting next to you/close to you coming up to you when others are around. Finding reasons to be near you and compliment you
This type of thinking is outdated. Most guys don’t approach anymore because it’s unclear when and where it’s taboo to do so. Women need to step up and either send clear messages or do the asking.
@DarkWinterNights no way
No clear signals from her means I will look elsewhere.
@spartan55 no problem
@PizzaPieMamaBear
So basically you are women don't have to do anything but show up and drop hints? Yeah okay
@spartan55 no we need to look pretty and be so good you can’t say no to us 😉
@PizzaPieMamaBear
So all guys are just looking for a great looking woman to date... that's it?
@spartan55 well not just that which is why we have to be so good they can’t say no!!! But yes every guy loves a pretty girl
I feel like I'm in a Lifetime Movie right now.
Of course it's ok, please do or guys like me will be forced into involuntary celibacy 😂 we're too shy to make a move.
Lol 😂
It’s preferable for us guys. We’d prefer things be simple for us
I think that's fine.
If I dont ask a girl out that I like than I'd hope she'd ask me out if she likes me
Not only is it okay it should happen more often but it’s not the case unfortunately so the shy guys miss out.
Yes I honestly don't understand why most women tend to prefer playing hard to get instead of actually telling the guy they like him.
I'll put it this way if a Man has a problem with a Woman asking him out then he just might be ( Gay for real an this brain is FUCK off ) .
God Bless
Of course it is and when it has I always take it as a huge compliment - even if I'm not interested. And guys, if a female does take that chance on you - be gracious.
When I was younger, I was clueless and had been asked out by a few girls since I was missing the signals they were sending. So ya, it is ok in my opinion.
Why isn’t it. If you like the person go for it. What have you to loose? A no. Big deal.
It’s okay to, but don’t be surprised if you catch some guy off guard lol
Yes, it's okay for a girl to ask a guy out.
It absolutely sure is but why do I get the feeling this will never become more common or normalized
Back when I was in my twenties I had a girl asked me out then later she made the first sexual move to. 💞
Yes, girls are also humans, they have feelings like guys too.
Yeah worked out for me. We’ve been married 5 years now