🏁 Is it true girls just wait at the finish line 🏁 ?

[Anonymous]

Girls they just sit at the finishing line of the race in dating. For the winners. They don’t care about the struggles and trauma. They’re just talking to 10 guys at once or wanting more

I’m a good guy and I get no girls. There’s my proof.

Sadly 😞 my grandmother passed away. I feel gutted for my grandad. But at the same time I’m grateful he at least had a woman who actually loved him.

🏁🏁🏁 It’s true girls are just at the finishing line 🏁🏁🏁

I disagree

[Prettygurl12]

I'm sure that some women are like that, but I wouldn't say it's the norm. I'm certainly not that way. It always gets me riled up when people make assumptions like this lol

My husband is a very accomplished person. But, not to toot my own horn or anything (except maybe a little 😅) I am a big part of that. He, of course, is the one who ACTUALLY did all of the things, but I can say with confidence that if I hadn't been there with him, he would not have accomplished as much.

We met in middle school before either of us had achieved any sort of success. We dated in high school and college and we were engaged before my husband told me he wanted to go to law school.

And I worked like a DOG to make that happen. I worked 80+ hour weeks to save for when we were married. I supported him through school, and, metaphorically, dragged his butt, kicking and screaming, to his diploma. He knows it, I know it, and his professors know it. Many of his professors commented on how supportive his wife was lmao

We joke that I should have gotten my law degree too, considering how it all went down. I proofread all his papers, I helped him study, I helped him research for his assignments. I was right there in the proverbial trenches with him.

In all seriousness, law school is hard, and he was in school during the pandemic and that did a number on his mental health. So... that was fun 🙃

Oh, and I made sure he graduated debt-free. 💁🏼‍♀️

[Anonymous]

"I’m a good guy and I get no girls. There’s my proof."

That is not proof of anything.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

You have the same problem I had. You are a self proclaimed "nice guy" who women need to love for his great personality. Sorry for been rough and don't get offended but you need to hear this and change your mindset. There aren't enough "winners" for every woman and they know that. Most of them probably dream the winner when they are young (just like we dream of the hot housewife that will be a virgin) but then realize that there is only 1 winner and that's not enough for all of them. Sure, a lot of girls prefer to share the winners rather than have a "loser" for themselves but still, you don't care about these women to begin with. So stop complain and see how you can have more fun with your life ;)

[ZXCwWRQWz]

You gotta learn bait before the boat. Even if you're such a catch like say you're so financially stable, living on your own, a leader in your community, and have your own career and get promoted left and right, what's your bait?

If you don't have bait, that's worthless. And the bait is not like, "I have a good fishing boat." Bait is like I got an awesome hairstyle that makes my face look good, six-pack if not eight-pack, and ab veins, I can go into a room and look a girl in the eyes and mesmerize her, you say just the right things to get a girl to like you, etc. It's a skill thing.

You need bait just like fish needs bait. You need the bait.

[Guy13]

Nah. Your experience is not representative of normal experience

[inhua]

a lot of them do wait at the finish line. racing isn't fun unless of course it's on the back of a motorcycle with a bad boy. finding a girl who's ride-or-die that can weather the storm with you through thick and thin, through the ups and downs is as rare as finding a needle in a haystack.

[FilmGuy93]

Women absolutely wait at the finishline, but that's not the reason you're not getting girls.

[Asker]

How do you know?

[FilmGuy93]

Because I know there are a huge number of women who aren't playing for keeps, and they are well aware of the fact that the finishline is where you go when you want to find your mate, not a new toy.

[Asker]

Well I appear not to meet any line. Dating is finished for the modern man

[chicosuave]

dont blame yourself. blame the era we will live in

[In_Trance]

Some do