If I got some noticeable plastic surgery will it decrease my chances of finding a mate? Will men treat me less than?

[Chelsdope0]

I’ve been called ugly and I have been treated different by men/ family / friends bc of how I look. If anything men just want to sleep with me or they reject me/ treat me like I’m disposable

My mom is really pretty and experienced everything I ever dreamed of. Everyone likes her and there’s even this very handsome / nice guy around my age who I really really like. He pays me no attention but he’s attracted to her. that really crushed me lol

Im super insecure about my looks and find it hard to accept. I am getting some work done. I’ve always wanted work done since I was 16.

A man has never loved me etc so I wouldn’t know it if it looked me in the face. I could care less

but I am curious

[FunkyMonkee]

It depends on what's done and how well it's done. My ex-fiance's nose was broken when she was little and, from what I've seen of her siblings, she should've had a big hooked nose, had it never been broken but, she said they had to do plastic surgery on it and, she ended up with a perfectly fine and cute nose! No hook at all!!

[Gent207-2]

You are so full of contradictions.

I imagine it's not looks but the endless warning sides you give out🚨🚩

[Chelsdope0]

Contradictions like?

[Gent207-2]

The first paragraph you say your family and friends treatyou like shit due to your looks. Than you double-back to only describe men. You say men want to sleep with you - but hoe can't hate be I'd you are not-attractive?
My favorite contradiction is at the end where you say "A man has never loved me... I don't care".
But clearly you care A LOT.

Honestly it's not your body or face it's your character, values and integrity that attract a quality partner.

[Chelsdope0]

When I say they want to sleep with me that doesn’t mean I sleep with them… that’s all they’re interested in.

I mean I care to an extent but it’s hard to care about something you never had.

[Gent207-2]

People don't get sexually aroused from someone that is unattractive. Therefore you must be attractive on some level.

Plus why didn't you include a photo in this post and let the masses share their view.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have nothing to post. You have said all that needs to be said!

[Guy___]

It depends on the mate. Things could be reversed too, what's ugly to some is liked by others.

[Chelsdope0]

Nah I’m fried

I also feel like since I’m too bad looking to get the GOOD nice looking men then I’d rather just not date. Not saying he has to look like Brad Pitt.

But I’ll be fine by myself.

[Guy___]

There are attractive people who don't date for various reasons.
I can't even know whether you're as bad as you describe, as I said, people have different beauty standards.

[Whitey_Johnson]

What are you planning to have done? I've seen good results on noses. I've seen abhorrent results on breast reductions. (I do not recall a single breast reduction that looked good.) Out of breast augmentations, I have only seen two or three that looked good. (Nyomi Banks and Dita Von Teese come to mind.) Butt implants are a waste of money and they never look natural. Just do some squats or the Brazilian Buttlift program and get your fat % to 25% or so and your butt will be as good as it can be. Same with liposuction... it's waste of time and money. You'll get better results with keto and intermittent fasting. Message me privately if you want more help.

[spartan55]

Depends on what kind of work you have done, quality of the surgeon, etc.

[Adogdog]

I wouldn't get any work done, I love all natural girls! :)

[LazerBean]

It's certainly possible.

[Danny_dan92]

Confidence isn’t something only women seek in men