Girls, For those who've tried online dating, what kind of messages do you find yourself most responsive to in an online dating prospect?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

I respond to guys that are joyful and non violent, meaning he isn’t critical or sarcastic or insensitive or selfishly exploitive. This might seem like a low standard but most don’t measure up. I consider sex before marriage to be a form of emotional violence towards the unmarried person.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Ones that show they read my bio and seem interested to talk about what I'm interested in. "So you like x music what's your favorite band/singer/song etc"

But being able to keep the conversation going is important too

[Anonymous]

I find that many people aren’t true to the Internet personality they hold and it’s also a way for people with bad intentions to manipulate.

[Asker]

So how do you choose to reply?