Girls, How many of you women want a genuinely nice guy?

[Anonymous]

Forget so much about superficial things.

There’s tons of single nice guys. Nice guy and a bit of a simp for you. Treats you like a queen.

I’ve never seen girls like this type of guy

I do want this / ideal guy

I don’t

[SueShe]

I presume that a great number of women would like a genuinely nice guy but...

A person that is willing to lose his dignity, his self-esteem or always says yes to the wishes of his wife/spouse/girlfriend or SO is, in my opinion, a person that lacks character and personality and that is NOT an ideal partner because such a person lacks backbone.

Being a genuinely nice person also includes someone that can say no when it is necessary and that is not afraid to voice his/her wishes and desires. You can still be a genuinely nice person but still have a strong character and not be someone that bows to the other. That kind of character creates an imbalance in the relation and imbalances are always a bad thing.

[Adaeva]

I didn't select A or B because they are not accurate answers. The fact is, girls like nice guys if they are hot but they are not. They are average or below average looking guys that attractive girls are not interested in because they can date much hotter guys. So called nice guys can date big girls but they are not attractive enough to deserve a pretty girl. However, they resent the fact that hot guys can date pretty girls but they can't.

The truth is, so called nice guys are not nice; they are just desperate. If they were really nice guys, they would ask big and homely girls that are in their league and accept the fact that they are not desirable enough to deserve better.

[Tina19]

I have been with one but honestly the relationship gets boring after a while when there is too much stability and no adventure or challenge in the relationship it becomes like a regular routine someone who is in the middle with the hint of some good and bad boy both the traits i like them... i guess good boys are good for marriage if you are someone who only cares about your partner not cheating on u

[LazerBean]

I'm married to one. All my married women friends are married to one as well. All my nice male friends who don't have anything wrong with them are married as well.

[Asker]

I’m not married

[LazerBean]

There's a reason I specified that they didn't have anything wrong with them.

[Asker]

I have something wrong with me?

[Asker]

You don’t know anything about me that’s why I’m anonymous.

[LazerBean]

I didn't say there was. But if you can't find someone who wants you, then the chance that there's nothing wrong with you is almost non-existent.

[Asker]

I disagree. We literally have the opposite experience. I know loads of really good guys struggling and single etc. it would be odd if we were in the 1980s or something.

[LazerBean]

I know a lot of self proclaimed nice guys who aren't actually nice that can't get women. And I know several nice guys who have other problems that can't get women. But I don't know a single nice guy who is mentally sound who wants to be married and wasn't by 23.

[Asker]

You live on another planet. It says you live in USA it can’t be possible. It’s not enough in modern times to be an average guy

[Asker]

Also you come across as someone that’s not mentally sound but bitter and arrogant

[LazerBean]

Not another planet, just a red state. Keep coping, though.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the woman and where she is in her life. Lots of women do go after the so called bad boys (bad term really) while younger, but eventually settle down with the nice guys.

[thegooglepixelfan]

I don't want a fake nice guys. Just a real good guys. So far I experienced more fake nice guys and very rare to find a real good guy.

[Anonymous]

The thing is they start being too nice tooo soon, before they even get to know you, like what are you so in love and obsessed about? My looks?

[Anonymous]

I married one.