Do girls still want nice guys?

Question

A guy that would treat you with respect but also can have a wild side

Novacane · Accepted Answer

Well depends what a “nice guy” is in this aspect, because treating someone with respect doesn’t mean “nice” because that is normal. Now i don’t think that would be the accurate question because do they want a nice guy, yes. If anything I would say 80%+ of women if you were to ask them they would say yes, but the key part here is are they actually choosing that nice guy? Are they going out there way to choose that nice guy over the bad ones? because for that I would say no they don’t. There are stats that show that those “nice guys” are less likely to get picked and women typically end up picking the opposite of that guy. If they do choose the nice guy they typically pick that guy later in life when they are older, once they have gone through their fair-share of guys. As much as I hate to say it but there is a reason they say nice guys finish last, because there is truth to that. NOW I’m not saying that nice guys DONT get picked, I’m sure there are nice guys out there that are finding love BUT all I’m saying is that you are less likely to get picked or desired for, so if you are a nice guy and find someone consider yourself lucky.

Rizack · Accepted Answer

I really love the duality of the comments. Girls sayings yes while guys saying it doesn't happen, it really shows the difference between theory and practice 🤣
The problems is when we are too nice, we get seen as best Friends and someone they can count on, so they won't see other things to avoid losing that bond.
Then there are NiceGuys™ that ruin things for everyone and if someone do something nice they act suspiciously due to bad past experiences.
So yeah, it's rare but they do get picked (not that I had any luck though xD but I know others)

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

"Nice" varies a lot from person to person.

Everyone wants to be treated with respect. Most people want to have fun. Some people love a sense of humor and adventure. I want someone who's a good conversationalist and who thinks about the state of himself and the world and acts on change.

Is that "nice?" Not necessarily, but suits me!

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

Most girls want a guy who is nice. But nobody wants a "nice guy". There's a vast difference. For more information on what a "nice guy" is, look up "nice guy compilations" on YouTube.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Nice guy but bad boy only for me. Vice versa

AmandaYVR · Answer

Yes, definitely. And your description is right on. 👍

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

No one wants a "Nice Guy™". They're just creeps who think treating someone with basic, bare decency entitles them to sex.

I want a realistic person, someone confident and full of self-love, who has an accurate idea of their flaws and strengths, and who has a zest for life. Someone mature, intelligent (reasonably), humourous, active, emotionally intelligent, and compassionate.

Anonymous · Answer

Talk is cheap. Women don’t necessarily like being mistreated but they love CHALLENGE.

I don’t think it’s possible for a true nice guy to become a true asshole or vice versa. However a “nice guy” can learn to draw boundaries. He can say no. He can stop himself from bending over backwards. He can call out bullshit. He can walk away and never look back.

The real lady’s men I’ve met out there aren’t 110% assholes rather they are manipulative. They know when to push and pull. They just know when to be nice and when to mean at the right times.

That’s hard very hard though. It requires quick thinking and street smarts.

It’s really sad that women don’t have better insights and self control on all of this. Some of them know deep down a guy really is a manipulator, liar, etc. but the false reality he creates for her so seductive they are like a moth to the flame.

I would of easily been in the 100+ club if I didn’t have a conscious growing up.

Topaz1979 · Answer

Personally I love nice guys a lot so it’s not true that all girls like bad boys who treat them like poop in the toilet. But I like nice guys who are not push overs cause being a push over is unhealthy.

AG900 · Answer

Yes and no. We want someone who has a good heart, and a wild sense of self respect and a bit of a wild attitude. Like Jotaro Kujo or or the guy from “Sekai Ichi Hatsukoi”.
Someone with a self confidence if steel, high social intelligence, charming and who we can’t control

TroyDT · Answer

A lot do. The problem is that a lot of "nice guys" are boring and/or manipulators who are anything but nice when they do not get their way.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

The term "nice guy" has unfortunately become rather loaded with pejorative implications, so I try to avoid it altogether. That said, most women looking for a relationship want to be treated well, unless they've formed an unhealthy attachment style due to male role models mistreating them in childhood.

JustADudePlayinADude · Answer

From what I understand, girls like confident guys. Many of the assholes in the world are confident, and a number of them are nice at first. Which is why a lot of women get tricked many times and why to more passive "nice guys" don't get the girls, but the assholes do.

EmmaMary · Answer

Personally I cannot imagine any girl not wanting a guy who is nice and respectful.

Andrew2128 · Answer

Absolutely not girls like naughty bad guys they're not attracted to the good guy they want the guy that's going to go out and do bad things seriously don't mean that you going to go out and rob a bank just be a bad guy treat her like a freaking devil I guess

Jamesshinobi · Answer

woman dont know what they want and even if they did, they would change their mind soon enough. Most say they do and very few actually do. i wouldn't worry about what they want, you are in this life for what you want. that doesn't mean be aweful. it means who cares what woman want.

ALPHABLACK · Answer

They never wanted them

They will never want them if they find one they will use them until he is broken then leave for a better moron that's what my soon to be ex wife told me she is a women , born women not trans

dolemite89 · Answer

girls want a good guy to settle down with eventually but when they’re in their prime they want guys that are confident jerks, “nice” comes off as insecure and desperate. Don’t put them on a pedestal at all, u’ll have better luck making fun of them than complimenting them.

hIopinionated_ · Answer

Of course. That’s the very first thing I look for in a guy, either romantically or platonic. I definitely wouldn’t want to converse with a meany

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

If they did, would so many nice guys be dying as virgins? Ell oh ell! It’s nonsense. It always has been. The friend zone is a fact of life for one simple reason, “nice” has NEVER been enough.

faithgrace4u · Answer

I want a nice guy like that but naughty guys are fine tooooo but id rather a nice guy who hunts and fishes

Anjoomkabir · Answer

Most girls want a guy who's only nice to them but completely indifferent towards others

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

Hmm.. you mean the guys who have values and respect? Hell yeah, definitely.

Blackcupcake · Answer

everyone wants a nice person, it’s just that most dudes that claim to be unwanted because they’re “nice guys” are 99.99% of the time NOT nice guys… lmfao

Browneye57 · Answer

The never did. They see right through that charade. Women are looking for a REAL MAN, not a girlie-man. Do you even know the difference?

242plusInfinity · Answer

No one can answer this question. Do all black people want nice lovers? See what I mean. People are individuals you cannot group them based on something common.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

When did they ever? They all SAY they want Prince Charming but, as soon as he steps into the room, they run off with the black knight who tortures the hell out of them!

Lastdoctorwho · Answer

Even if you say "I am not looking his/her face" this is a big lie. If I like his face and his voice, this is very good and enough for me (and for everyone) so yes, I like nice guys

Rangers · Answer

Most girls want guys who abuse them but the few good girls who are left want a guy to treat them right but good luck cause you'll be competing with every guy in the world throughout your life for them!

genericname85 · Answer

of course girls want a nice guy. but that's not like a special quality. that is the "bare minimum". if "being nice" is all you bring to the table, that's nto a lot.

OnlinePeanut22 · Answer

How can we tell if a guy is truly going to be nice or kind and not just pretend to be nice or not get angry? If they are not interested because they have been led on before with previous bad experiences with men.

jongreat46 · Answer

I have to say, please stop with this nice guy vs chad nonsense; of your goal is to have sex then you are not a nice guy, and even if it is not; a woman is not obligated to even give you a relationship period.

Paul09 · Answer

I rather have nice women with respect. Than bad girls with no respect. In the end, when people finally mature, they realize they want to be respected by nice people. Who don't like and hide shit

Trina581 · Answer

Not me. Nice guys can't smash me good in my opinion. I need it ruff n to be rude sometimes or I'm a be board

petitedollbabee · Answer

I love guys who are nice, and fit your description. But not “nice guys”. Big difference.

Amy10223 · Answer

Yes, that sounds good to me. Nice, but with a wild side. ;)

DiegoO · Answer

You're defining "nice guy" from your understanding. A "nice guy" can mean any guy she is into and not specific behavioral traits.

lorenzomichael · Answer

Maybe good guys to be there friends, but badboys are the ones they want. I'm not talking about them being Dicks Maybe asshloes once in a while but badboys never the less.

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

Look at how high testosterone individuals behave and this is what girls like. We are not malicious for no reason. We are not nice for no reason. We also do not have an angle during normal social interactions.

YoHoeRose · Answer

I'm with my first "nice" guy he's wonderful 🤗

es20490446e · Answer

I will tell you what people want. People want the best, being a piece of shit themselves :D

Anonymous · Answer

Most think they do. The problem most women couldn't identify a nice guy if he was standing right in front of her. So typically she goes with gut. Call it her feelings, her intuition, call it what you will. Either way it's usually wrong. 🤣

RealMarek · Answer

Yes, some do. I found a woman who values genuine kindness.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls want to be Fucked and told that You will Fuck them repeatedly for hours. As a man I can say the best way to get a Girl obsessed with you is to Fuck her.

Fryday_Knight · Answer

A guy who matches your description? They do. There are women who don't like them and go for the bad guys, but you don't want those women.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Nice guys hide their wild side. And women don't have imagination nor curiosity, so they would never know.

AndrésC64 · Answer

True?

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Most people want someone real, not a guy playing a role.

OddBeMe · Answer

Yes but not super nice. They like a bit of fight. Punch them once in a while, in a spot not seen by coworkers. Trust me….

TonightYouu · Answer

They claim they do but they guys they fuck and the guys they have babies with the guys who make them single mothers are not nice guys

Twalli · Answer

If he looks the way she wants him to. In a perfect world they'd want a bad boy who they can turn into a nice guy.

Anonymous · Answer

I usually act like a nice guy to keep women away from me.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, that's the kind of man a healthy girl wants.

Anonymous · Answer

I do. Mostly, I like the idea of a strong protector type. Usual everyday niceness is okay, I'd probably love him too if there was a real relationship.

Tonita91996 · Answer

Do guys still want a good woman? Instead of a woman who doesn't even love him.

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes they like good guys who wants to marry a bad guy

boobliker · Answer

most of the younger girls i know now want a bad boy due to there exe's

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely not.. they say they want a nice guy on here or In public but what they really want is a guy to treat them like garbage... the worse you treat them the more they want you...

Anonymous · Answer

I doubt it.

Dnice1 · Answer

I like a nice sweet kind guy who is also very naughty under the sheets

Fuentes · Answer

Men should have learned this young that being tooo nice is a no go lol

driven159 · Answer

most everybody has a wild side if their Partner is wild too

Shy_Steve · Answer

They do, But they just want them to be a bit more Confident.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

As a cheap way to take advantage off guys and get free food and gifs maybe

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