Do girls still want nice guys?

[Nawawee]

A guy that would treat you with respect but also can have a wild side

[Novacane]

Well depends what a “nice guy” is in this aspect, because treating someone with respect doesn’t mean “nice” because that is normal. Now i don’t think that would be the accurate question because do they want a nice guy, yes. If anything I would say 80%+ of women if you were to ask them they would say yes, but the key part here is are they actually choosing that nice guy? Are they going out there way to choose that nice guy over the bad ones? because for that I would say no they don’t. There are stats that show that those “nice guys” are less likely to get picked and women typically end up picking the opposite of that guy. If they do choose the nice guy they typically pick that guy later in life when they are older, once they have gone through their fair-share of guys. As much as I hate to say it but there is a reason they say nice guys finish last, because there is truth to that. NOW I’m not saying that nice guys DONT get picked, I’m sure there are nice guys out there that are finding love BUT all I’m saying is that you are less likely to get picked or desired for, so if you are a nice guy and find someone consider yourself lucky.

[Rizack]

I really love the duality of the comments. Girls sayings yes while guys saying it doesn't happen, it really shows the difference between theory and practice 🤣
The problems is when we are too nice, we get seen as best Friends and someone they can count on, so they won't see other things to avoid losing that bond.
Then there are NiceGuys™ that ruin things for everyone and if someone do something nice they act suspiciously due to bad past experiences.
So yeah, it's rare but they do get picked (not that I had any luck though xD but I know others)

[Screenwriter]

"Nice" varies a lot from person to person.

Everyone wants to be treated with respect. Most people want to have fun. Some people love a sense of humor and adventure. I want someone who's a good conversationalist and who thinks about the state of himself and the world and acts on change.

Is that "nice?" Not necessarily, but suits me!

[LazerBean]

Most girls want a guy who is nice. But nobody wants a "nice guy". There's a vast difference. For more information on what a "nice guy" is, look up "nice guy compilations" on YouTube.

[Nawawee]

That you very much I will do so, if I may ask do you have a YouTube channel

[Light909090]

Nice guy is a guy that is nice

[Paul09]

Nice is nice period. You people turns word nice into the opposite meaning . Almost like saying bad = nice , nice= bad. Like I treat people the way I want to be treated. I like nice , respectful people. There is fake nice. That's better use of words.

[Light909090]

And then there Were none

[LazerBean]

I didn't coin the term dude. Go take that shit up with reddit.

[Light909090]

Clearly you did or else you wouldn’t of just said it.
And I get it your just looking for attention and here I am giving you the attention you want.

[LazerBean]

U good? Here let me copy and paste my OG answer since you missed it the first time: "For more information on what a "nice guy" is, look up nice guy compilation on YouTube."

Or maybe you just need to look up what "coining a term" means.

[Light909090]

I’ve got a coin 🪙 and I know what a Term is.

[Light909090]

Gotta break that shit down or you won’t know the real answer

[LazerBean]

So you're saying that you believe I personally coined the term 4+ years ago and hundreds of YouTube videos have been using it ever since thanks to me? Is that question broken down 🤏🏼 enough for you?

[Paul09]

No. I am not saying you did invent it loo. But you are using it that way. People seem to follow herds. Or "trends". I wonder what word these kids will change next. When you get older you realize a-holes are not for you.

[LazerBean]

You say that as if sayings haven't been evolving and coming into existence continuously since the beginning of time.

[Light909090]

Yeah yeah yeah I get it
@LazerBean you think your smarter than him and me but You don’t know what I know You can only go off what We all say and that’s it. That isn’t a accurate way to measure someone’s intelligence over your own.

[LazerBean]

I would say judging how stupid someone is based on how many stupid things they say is pretty dang accurate. I would also say that when someone asks a yes or no question, and they avoid answering it because either answer will make you look stupid, its a pretty good indicator that they already know they are stupid.

[Pinay_ako]

Nice guy but bad boy only for me. Vice versa

[AmandaYVR]

Yes, definitely.

And your description is right on. 👍

[Smoke-n-Growls]

No one wants a "Nice Guy™". They're just creeps who think treating someone with basic, bare decency entitles them to sex.

I want a realistic person, someone confident and full of self-love, who has an accurate idea of their flaws and strengths, and who has a zest for life. Someone mature, intelligent (reasonably), humourous, active, emotionally intelligent, and compassionate.

[mobiusforniner]

Spot on. Thank you. Too many guys think being nice entitles them to ass. It doesn't. In fact, it makes them a dick. Women want a guy whos sure of himself. he's genuinely a decent person, not just because he wants ass.

Case in point, I've had more issues keeping women away after i got married. I presume its for the reasons you list here.

[Anonymous]

Talk is cheap. Women don’t necessarily like being mistreated but they love CHALLENGE.

I don’t think it’s possible for a true nice guy to become a true asshole or vice versa. However a “nice guy” can learn to draw boundaries. He can say no. He can stop himself from bending over backwards. He can call out bullshit. He can walk away and never look back.

The real lady’s men I’ve met out there aren’t 110% assholes rather they are manipulative. They know when to push and pull. They just know when to be nice and when to mean at the right times.

That’s hard very hard though. It requires quick thinking and street smarts.

It’s really sad that women don’t have better insights and self control on all of this. Some of them know deep down a guy really is a manipulator, liar, etc. but the false reality he creates for her so seductive they are like a moth to the flame.

I would of easily been in the 100+ club if I didn’t have a conscious growing up.

[Topaz1979]

Personally I love nice guys a lot so it’s not true that all girls like bad boys who treat them like poop in the toilet. But I like nice guys who are not push overs cause being a push over is unhealthy.

[AG900]

Yes and no. We want someone who has a good heart, and a wild sense of self respect and a bit of a wild attitude. Like Jotaro Kujo or or the guy from “Sekai Ichi Hatsukoi”.
Someone with a self confidence if steel, high social intelligence, charming and who we can’t control

[AG900]

Most “nice guys” are pushovers. They may be respectful, but they don’t ever dare to be challenging or exciting. They are too afraid of standing up for what they believe… they tend to go along with what we say, even if they don’t like it, or would get upset when feeling a bit of rejection instead of bantering and proving themselves charming and self confident.
That’s what makes us like someone we didn’t like before, because some guys Can display truly attractive traits

[TroyDT]

A lot do. The problem is that a lot of "nice guys" are boring and/or manipulators who are anything but nice when they do not get their way.

[Nawawee]

I see I forgot that sometimes it is like that as well

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

The term "nice guy" has unfortunately become rather loaded with pejorative implications, so I try to avoid it altogether. That said, most women looking for a relationship want to be treated well, unless they've formed an unhealthy attachment style due to male role models mistreating them in childhood.

[JustADudePlayinADude]

From what I understand, girls like confident guys. Many of the assholes in the world are confident, and a number of them are nice at first. Which is why a lot of women get tricked many times and why to more passive "nice guys" don't get the girls, but the assholes do.

[EmmaMary]

Personally I cannot imagine any girl not wanting a guy who is nice and respectful.

[Nawawee]

That's what I'm also thinking just double checking

[EmmaMary]

@Nawawee

Hopefully this will now be the confirmation you're looking for.

[Nawawee]

Thanks

[EmmaMary]

@Nawawee

You're most welcome.

[Andrew2128]

Absolutely not girls like naughty bad guys they're not attracted to the good guy they want the guy that's going to go out and do bad things seriously don't mean that you going to go out and rob a bank just be a bad guy treat her like a freaking devil I guess

[Jamesshinobi]

woman dont know what they want and even if they did, they would change their mind soon enough. Most say they do and very few actually do. i wouldn't worry about what they want, you are in this life for what you want. that doesn't mean be aweful. it means who cares what woman want.

[Tonita91996]

Same goes with men they don't know what they want either.

[ALPHABLACK]

They never wanted them

They will never want them if they find one they will use them until he is broken then leave for a better moron that's what my soon to be ex wife told me she is a women , born women not trans

[dolemite89]

girls want a good guy to settle down with eventually but when they’re in their prime they want guys that are confident jerks, “nice” comes off as insecure and desperate. Don’t put them on a pedestal at all, u’ll have better luck making fun of them than complimenting them.

[hIopinionated_]

Of course. That’s the very first thing I look for in a guy, either romantically or platonic. I definitely wouldn’t want to converse with a meany

[faithgrace4u]

I want a nice guy like that but naughty guys are fine tooooo but id rather a nice guy who hunts and fishes

[Chazmatazz269]

If they did, would so many nice guys be dying as virgins? Ell oh ell!
It’s nonsense. It always has been.
The friend zone is a fact of life for one simple reason, “nice” has NEVER been enough.

[Anjoomkabir]

Most girls want a guy who's only nice to them but completely indifferent towards others

[242plusInfinity]

You think? That's a conditional giver. I don't want to be that type of guy. What good is it to have a keen sense of internet toward the person who makes me feel good but I can't leave any other person with the impression of increase. That's a conditional giver. That's average and nothing special.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Hmm.. you mean the guys who have values and respect? Hell yeah, definitely.

[Vegasrunner]

@seriouslyfunny00 Unfortunately most of those guys dont have values and respect for themselves which is why women dont want them.

[Blackcupcake]

everyone wants a nice person, it’s just that most dudes that claim to be unwanted because they’re “nice guys” are 99.99% of the time NOT nice guys… lmfao