Would it be scary to have kids with your boyfriend (unmarried)?

[RandomGuy1030]

Yes

haven't thought about it at all

[NewYorkCity]

Depends on how many years you've been with your partner. If it's been only few months to a year, you can expect an unexpected. Say her loosing an interest in you, because she just wanted to have fun by pretending to be a mother, because it was cool, fun and sexy, but in reality she wasn't ready neither financially or mentally for such life changing event. But if you've been together for at least 3+ years, by now you should know for Sure, if she is serious and really committed for such a big step in her life and same goes for you. She should also know if you are ready to settle down for life and she would also know if you won't ghost her or run away when she gives birth to YOUR children and you be able to take care of your G. F. and your kid financially (SUPER important) if you have a crappy job and your bank account is as low as a water level in Nevada desert, do not, I repeat, DO NOT! bring an innocent soul into this brutal realm, because that is simply selfish and wrong.

[Summeroflove]

Well I wouldn’t have a boyfriend and men can’t get each other pregnant. Having kids can be scary for anyone. Especially out of wedlock

[Anemone978]

I would never have a bfs kid lol so i would be on birth control

[Guy13]

Yeah, it definitely would especially if she was not the marrying and committed type

[Damian69]

Having kids is an even bigger commitment than marriage. So yeah, I'd wanna be married first

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

Yeah, sounds like disaster waiting to happen

[NewYorkCity]

A lot of concerns and doubts from people regarding this topic and for a good reason too.

[Anonymous]

Very scary.