He ruined my day after I spent the day getting ready to look good for him and dress up for him to give him sex. He ruined my day because he started questioning the whole relationship because of my religious beliefs and I was left alone at home that day to cry all night meanwhile he went to his house. I texted him this “ Don’t try to tell me that you weren’t thinking about breaking up you even told me to give you space to think about things I swear I might seem soft to you but if you keep on hurting me and disappointing me over and over again I will get my ass up and leave I’m not going to settle for that. Get your shit together It’s so easy for you to bust a nut and then later question the whole relationship and leave me alone right? Don’t ever put me in a position where I have to beg you again. I swear if you ever hurt me this way again you could go fuck yourself. I’m not going to let you be the reason why I lose my smile. “ This was the firmest thing that I have ever texted him I’m usually always sweet and only get sad rarely angry but I’m done with this man making me cry. If we didn’t have years of history I wouldn’t have stayed and if he didn’t promise to marry me but he’s been making me feel deeply hurt over and over again and I’ve been trying to talk to him but he kind of never learns.
Long time coming. That felt good down to my soul. If it seems too much it’s only bc it wasn’t said sooner. Every but if what you said was spot on snd needed to be said. If he is the man he claims to be he will take this time abs seriously self reflect. I’m sorry you had to get to the point bc he insisted on igniting every time. Once in a while hard things need be said. The fact you’ve held it in so long we know you are thoughtful and not impulsive but you’re right you’re much stronger than he seems to have calculated.
I hope he comes through and is as good as he purported. This needed to be done bc you all debt start a life together without honesty. Or walking in egg shells. Well done. Be proud 🥲
Also in case anyone try’s to spin this into I’m supporting you bc you’re a woman and women get away with anything in relationship _ bullshit. I’d say this to any gender. Whether he was a man a woman or a monkey 🙈
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"He ruined my day because he started questioning the whole relationship because of my religious beliefs and I was left alone at home that day to cry all night meanwhile he went to his house."
He's clearly not the man for you. End this and find someone who is totally accepting.
Famous quote from Juno: "Look, in my opinion, the best thing you can do is find a person who loves you for exactly what you are. Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty, handsome, what have you, the right person is still going to think the sun shines out your ass. That's the kind of person that's worth sticking with."
Religion... always that one thing that causes trouble in the world.
Well is it in your case really an issue? Like do have to confess to a priest if you have sex or so?
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I see absolutely nothing wrong with your message.
You are clearly dealing with a user who only likes things when they're going his way.
You can never trust someone like that.
If you feel you need to threaten a breakup and he's asking for "space" that's a sign that you should be breaking up.
Don't wait for the next time he hurts you because that is coming for sure. End it now on your own terms.He forgot the second part. "Thanks, I needed that." If he means it, it might show he's man enough to admit he was wrong. But I'd want to see a little more than just "Thanks."
From the details of your text, you could have easily shortened it to something like, "I'm fed up with your shit! If you left anything at my place, come get it and make your way out of my life".
What was he upset initially about , the statements which you have given is solely how you feel about it.
But what really happened?Maybe he's sorry he hurt you and upset you
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