Turned off by how my boyfriend looks sometimes, why can’t he make an effort? (Page 2)

[PinkRose24]

He doesn't make any effort for you? Did he fall out of love for you?

[Istafa]

I think you should tell him that you feel being taken for granted and that you shouldn't stop making effort anymore, in my opinion you shouldn't keep this to yourself talk to him I'm sure he'll understand

[Jamie05rhs]

So are you going actually be a Big Girl and tell him that? Or are you going to stew and be passive-aggressive about it?

[AmeerX]

Feeling smelly is no excuse. Hygiene is important but rest about haircut and shave is personal preference

[Emalou]

I think you need to speak up, sensitively. There may be an underlying issue, or he maybe just comfortable and content with you and thinks he doesn’t need to make an effort anymore.

[Guardian45]

Well said!

[RonStone45]

Just tell him what you want nicely and he will comply.

[rienna888]

Just be straight up it’s better than breaking up

[BJP21]

Tell him in a non condescending way. Sounds like he has no standards of grooming or hygiene.

[HelpingMcHelpington]

With men, be direct as possible. Women always make the mistake of being too nice to guys. We always need the straight up answer.

[TheFirstMan]

Fix it with a good talk with him. When u love someone you open a room. When he love someone he will open a room too.

[ZenJen444]

He's not making effort because he doesn't like you. When his dream girl comes along he will make the effort. To him you're not worth it. So maybe you should fix urself up too

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Men are simple don’t underestimate the power of positive female reinforcement

I think you already know the answer

[TheFlak38]

Just another woman who knows how to pick the best man possible.

[Anonymous]

He is getting complacent in the relationship, you need to keep him on his toes and show him that is not how things should be when you get used to someone

[_Troian_]

Damn girl I see where its going.. u gonna cheat on him.

[krin_m]

Figure out how to tell him about it without making him feel bad. This is a tough one though. Good luck!

[J060170]

Yeah, you can’t “hint” with guys. You just need to be blunt but stay kind.

[CharlieDMX]

As others have said. Tell him directly. If he doesn't respond favorably, then it's time to go

[driven159]

might be time to move on if he doesn't care about himself, he is not going to care about anything

[TrillXHippy]

Yeah sadly I really don’t know what else you can do about that situation

[OddBeMe]

It sounds like depression. We men can get fed up sometimes.

[Cassie2002]

Single so my physically no but time he’s mom get into our business I hear an ear fool turned me off.

[BeyondBirthday]

Just tell him. But don't get mad if he tells you what he don't like too.

[Anonymous]

That’s how my brother is. His haircut and beard makes himself look homeless but he’s not homeless. Some people who don’t care about grooming are like that.


Does your boyfriend ever wear lots of cologne that smells good?

[Scotty2hottie36969]

Date you a hott sexy hairless woman that you can go down on and enjoy not picking hair out your teeth

[Tx_Girl31]

He could be depressed or struggling with his mental health or just not happy if this is new for him try sitting down and ask him if he’s doing ok

[dscs24]

Tell him how you always try to look good for him and how much you like to look at each other when you go out. That will start making him self concious

[JLEasy]

I think you just say it directly with a smile on your face. If it's not awkward to you, it won't be to him.

[Jltakk]

Stop giving hints and communicate with him. He's your partner.

[Anonymous]

That's just gross. Unless you want to catch some sort of disease from his uncleanlyness you need to break up with him

[In_Trance]

He's probably wondering the very same thing about you

[Abdulwahh]

Speaks to him about it. I mean do you want to marry an untidy person

[chjimes]

Let him know how you feel about it so that he will have that awareness.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Constantly. Sucks she won't try harder to be sexy EVER. Unless she's at work with Jason

[Anonymous]

It's a part of relationship... we guys also handle your stench ( period blood ) and smelly bootyhole lots of time..

[Anonymous]

tell him that you want him to be neat otherwise no sex.

[tenor55]

THAT will get his attention!!!

[Opinion Owner]

@tenor55 no but my friend tried

[AngryCarl]

Serves you right for dating a bum.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Tell him what you told us. MEN DON'T TAKE HINTS.

[Darkholler]

You should cuckold him

[Iron_Man]

Tell him about it

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Simple. Confront him face to face. I believe, he will understand it, most likely.

[boobliker]

Explain it to him it may help

[CubaPirate]

Tell him to step up or ship out

[Pterodon]

Might have depression

[FatDikEng]

Dumb him that should fix this issue

[dowser19]

And yet... you chose him.👌

[Fuentes]

Yeah your gonna have to tell dude lol

[peedy]

Looks dont matter its whats on the inside

[blackoutlawstudbrady]

He's a slob like lots of lads.

[msc545]

tell him directly but kindly

[Bklynbadboy12]

Sounds like he's gotten to comfortable

[Bricealan]

Sound that way to me too !

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes he definitely has lol

[bravesfan44]

I don’t know I’m a virgin

[jimmy2]

Sit his butt down and just tell him

[Lis-the-librarian]

Talk to him

[SmokinAces2000]

Just tell him

[hothirldoll]

Tell him that

[SmokyEnrique]

Tell him directly

[jwbjimmy23]

Nasty and lazy

[Rottman23]

Lazy