True or false: If a close friend rejects you going on a date, that will never change & she will never see you as anything more than a friend?

[Anonymous]

True

False

[Guy13]

It is easier to do something the second time. If she rejected you as a dating option once then she will likely reject you again. The point of remaining friends to some people is to place them in a position of safety to them.

I do not know your friendship but if you were friends first, with the hope of boyfriend status, she could probably sense that. If she thought it a possibility and you verified it by asking her out eventually then it is likely she will not trust you enough to be anything more than general friends...

I have had this happen to me and other people told me that it is not about the tennis... tennis training... etc but that she likes you. If "you" are the friend like "the girl" I knew then it IS highly unlikely that your relationship will progress.

[Asker]

What do you mean by general friends?

[Guy13]

Friendzoned

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you never try you will never know & if you like someone don’t be afraid to let them know. As for me if someone rejects me I look at it like they did me a favor because subconsciously they know they aren’t good enough for me.

As for love it works in mysterious ways & who knows what the future may bring.

[exitseven]

False, there could be many reasons she rejected you. Things can change.

[MCheetah]

True more often than not.