We went on a date and he didn’t even check if I got home safe. Is that rude? (Page 2)

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I went on a date yesterday with someone who I used to be seeing he said missed me and stuff but he didn’t even check to see if I got home safe? Is it me or is that rude? That’s why I didn’t even bother doing anything sexual with him I was thinking to message this  ‘Yesterday you didn’t message to see if I got home safe and this old man was literally following me through town. Imagine if I did do stuff with you and you still wouldn’t have checked if I got home safe lol that’s why I wasn’t even on it like that cause I don’t even feel close to you emotionally’  or shall I just leave it?

Guanfei · Answer

Did YOU check if he got home safe? No? Then why should he do it?

msc545 · Answer

He is not your parent or your bodyguard. Grow up.

sunflower44 · Answer

He should have drove u home and walked u to ur door ,, what can I say I'm a romantic at heart 😏

Slim57 · Answer

Not really, that's kinda something I would only assume people start talking about when they're getting emotionally invested

LenaBanana · Answer

If he know I'd be home late at night, I would want him to call me. And if I knew he’d be back late, I would have called.

Anonymous · Answer

It's kind of dumb on his part, but not rude.

noohair · Answer

It is the world that social media created. Unhealthy self centered.

Neilbud · Answer

Tough one. Maybe watch for more red flags on the second date.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

That's weird. Usually when you really like a woman it's difficult not thinking about her.

mogambo · Answer

It depends upon his personality, however, the point to ponder for you. Your feelings are right though.

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

Text him and tell him. Damn dude. Take some responsibility

jimmy2 · Answer

Well bad news travels fast so cut some slack he knows no calls

Anonymous · Answer

Yes it is very rude tbh no matter where you leave or how you left, it is just common sense.

RavVid · Answer

Leave it and don't make stuff up.

Reece12345 · Answer

That's rude. He should've done that.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Women moment right here.

qwert1234 · Answer

Did you check if he got home ok?

IveGotNoName · Answer

Did you check to see if he did?

annabananna · Answer

Did you walk home alone?

Brando10222 · Answer

Leave it. He doesn't care.

Fuentes · Answer

This sounds very highschoolish

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Not rude just selfish

Figurine89 · Answer

Just be glad you're going on dates

Anonymous · Answer

Did you call to check on him though?

Anonymous · Answer

No, just your opinion that he should.

Justneedtokno · Answer

Well did it go well

es20490446e · Answer

You are being silly.

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