I’m in a relationship with a guy I’m not all that attracted to but I use his to run my business and he takes low pay. I don’t want to dump him just yet but I’m interested in another man. I’m a black woman and my boyfriend is black. I met an Asian man and I’m really into him. I started sexting with the Asian guy and now I feel really guilty. Am I cheating and is it wrong what I’m doing? Should I break up with my boyfriend?
Should I sext or break up?
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The first thing for me is having a partner that I am not attracted to BUT have to have around... What a drag that must be. I hope he does really good work !!
As it relates to sexting the new interest, I get that. Make sure you do not over do it there or the Asian guy will think you are a hoe. I would break-up with the guy that you are not attracted too. If he gets wind of this then he can mess up your Business.
How can he mess up my business?
I am sure there are lots of simplistic ways but I’m not privy to the details…
Yes, you're cheating and you're using a guy you're not attracted to for personal benefits. That's a double red flag. Please leave him so he can find someone better.
Why not go for the Asian dude and see how it goes?