I´ve been seing this guy for about a month. We met through tinder and made it clear that we were not looking for anything serious right now - we both recently got out of relationships. So we became friends with benefits. First time we saw each other was over a drink. And we hit it of immidiatley, we talked about everything from childhood upwards och engaged in heavy banter. The sex was (and is) great, it's experimental and we look in each others eyes the whole time. He once held my face and said "so beautiful" in the midst of it. Sooo... a lot of passion.
I´ve never had a friends with benefits, so I´m not sure how it´s suppose to work, but usually he stays hours after sex, and we just talk about life and everything. We laugh, he tickles me and we kiss each other. He even said he has become vulnerable with me, even though he has trust issues and rarely let people in. He´s shared his biggest regrets and what he wants from life. The last time we saw each other he said that I´m an amazing person and that "we´re friends now" - which mean I can call him whenever I want, and he will be there. He also said that I never should let anyone treat me bad and held my chin and said "no one should treat such a beautiful and good person badly" and then kissed me.
I´m starting to feel something... but I´m not sure if he sees me as future girlfriend "material". We have talked about what we´re looking for in a partner, and he wants a "fitness-person"... and I´m not the one who spends her time at gym. And then he was like "and you probably want someone who likes to read, and you´ll find that person". And that made me think that he doesn´t like me in "that" way. He also continuously updates his Tinder-profile. Should I just call things of? I really don´t want to get hurt.
Starting to catch feelings for friends with benefits. Should I break it of? Could he possibly feel the same?
