What benefit does a man without kids get with dating a single mother?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Depends on the age bracket.

20-30s -- you're more than likely involving yourself with a tramp that sleeps around, isn't loyal, cheap sex, etc. Or was problematic one way or another with whatever guy was involved with her before. Usually not a respectable partner & usually not that intelligent either otherwise why would she be a single mother without a boyfriend or husband. Typically end up burdered with additional responsibilities, expenses, and bluntly hassle.

40-50s - more than likely divorced a husband that may not have been faithful himself (she may not have been), has children that are older so you usually don't have to be bothered with additional responsibilities or expenses, you're getting a woman who is typically mature, not necessarily dramatic or prone to temper tantrums, and is typically more down to earth than 20-30s who believe because they can sleep around (with men looking for dimwits & cheap sex) that they may be in demand and not just used.

All in all it's generally undesirable for a guy.

You are getting a woman with children which are an additional burden, cost, responsibility. You're getting a woman who may or may not have issues. etc.

I think guys get involved with single mothers because it's typically cheap sex.

Adaeva · Accepted Answer

Since young single mothers are less desirable than equally attractive young single girls, dating a single mother allows a young guy to date someone prettier than the prettiest young single girl he could date. If a young guy is a 6, the prettiest young single girl he can date is a 6, but he might date 7 single mother. After age 30, the foregoing may not be true because a 35 year old single mother may be as desirable as 35 year old single woman.

Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

I had a long term relationship with a single mom.
She and her ex got along ok which was fine.
I did not want to get in the middle of a toxic relationship.
It was fine, I got along with thenkids ok, and we did a lot of stuff together which was fun.
the youngest was 3.
I didn't try to be their dad, because they already had one.
I never wanted to have kids for whatever reason, but I was fine being around someone elses kids.
and the sex was great, it was like she was making up for lost time.

DiegoO · Accepted Answer

Not much—next to nothing. I strongly advice not date single parents if you are not a parent.

coachTanthony · Answer

If you want kids yourself then it's not a great idea. Can it be done sure but it can get messy doing all that blended family stuff.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Nothing that can be said applies to ALL single moms, but in general. . . single moms tend to be more mature, goal oriented, and appreciative of whatever attention they get.

HighValue · Answer

None. Extra expenses, more responsibilities, they won't want to listen as much, and since they aren't legally yours, the mother can take them away any time if you break up. Also, likely drama and stress.

Ligerzzero · Answer

Only benefit for the man is if he never got chance to have kids,

It benefits the single mother more because there are no children the guy is burning with him, no child support.

Really the benefit in this situation are 100% for the mother.

But most women with kids don’t want a guy who don’t have kids, the only time they are ok with it is when the kids are done with school

Anonymous · Answer

Zero.

We don’t get benefits from dating women at all.
Most women will put out without dating now-a-days so chasing ass is not required. We don’t gain money, stuff, etc
We don’t need them for comfort, companionship, support, etc.

Literally there is no reason for a guy to simp over a female. Just be around and at some point you will get your turn.

MzAsh · Answer

My stepdad wanted kids, but due to an accident he couldn’t have kids. So my sisters and I are his kids.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Lots of men want kids and not all men can have their own biological progeny. The foster and adoption systems are EXTREMELY anti-male. For some men, dating single mothers is their best shot at being a dad.

SnowedIn · Answer

It's not about benefits, necessarily. It's about does he want the connection and relationship with her. Like, why discard the woman because she has kids -- that's cheating yourself out of an opportunity.

SexyRedd1966 · Answer

I know plenty of guys who date women with children... I think that's really irrelevant especially as you get older you're more than likely going to find women or men with children

OfMiceandMen · Answer

He gets the added benefit of knowing her kids and being a potential role model. If you completely fallen head over heals for a woman, it shouldn't matter if she has kids.

robbo · Answer

I don't know I thought people got to meet her because they loved eachother. I don't know maybe you fall in love with her and her children.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

None, for men there are no benefits to dating period.

Akam93 · Answer

There not his. 🤷‍♀️ as in he doesn't have to take care of them, love them, feed them cause that's the single mother that does it all. Like any guy would date a single mom. Unless there really pretty.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Whatever benefits we would gain by dating a non-mother. Single moms just come with a little something extra, but that's life.

KathrynTaylor · Answer

Sex with an experienced woman and the chance to be a stepfather and dad to more kids.

Adam1978 · Answer

Compare to dating a woman without kids? None beyond prof of fertility and that isn't worth it.

exitseven · Answer

I have changed my mind about single mothers. If the kids are older it would be okay and would have the same advantages as women with no kids.

boggboss · Answer

The same benefits anybody would get from dating as a whole no

Crankor · Answer

Hmm yah I don't think I say any are benefits. It's more challenging but also doesn't mean it's troublesome. An upside I see can also be a downside but you won't ever have a dull moment anymore ha

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

You don't have to look after children that isn't yours or buy things for the girl's children because those kids aren't your responsibility.

Exterminatore · Answer

No benefit. Not only is there no benefit, there’s negative benefits.

Keishio · Answer

Nothing more than you'd get dating a woman without kids. Probably less of a benefit because naturally you'd be sharing her with her family

Anonymous · Answer

Gets to raise another human. If he biologically can’t have children and he really wants kids, dating a single mother is a good option. A lot of men shoot blanks nowadays

Luopio27 · Answer

Dating single mothers benifits guys the most who want to be the substitute fathers, replacement dads for those who have lost their own dad.

WTFdivorce · Answer

I would say if you love her that's a benefit.

EaterPeter · Answer

None. Man gets no benefit out of any relationships with most women

jimmy2 · Answer

You lover her kids as your own she will love you more than any other Woman

Gummy_Cluster · Answer

She's probably more appreciative.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Not having to raise some other guy's kids!

Fuentes · Answer

I ain't them babies daddy.

msc545 · Answer

He gets at least one kid to play with

Heolurt · Answer

None besides the benefit of extra bills

Chthou95 · Answer

There is no benefit

Anonymous · Answer

What benefits?

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Pussy, that's all.

briigantexx · Answer

Yea why not?

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