How do I get my girlfriend to be less shy?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating my girlfriend for like half a year and she's shy af. I mean I've known her for 2 years but only have her baby pics 😂. She doesn't send me pics. Nor calls me. Just pure text but she still loves me a lot. It's actually her first time in an rs so yaaa

How do I get her to open up more? Like she's shy to give big msgs and stuff. I want her to talk more with me.

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Got it people

[Guy13]

Shy women like FUN guy but require patience. It took me 1 month before my girl would trust me. That's how shy women are. They will let you guide them though. One has to spend lots of time with them. They are easily overstimulated and when that happens they withdrawal even more. Shy women can be difficult BUT they like that you are a leader and fun

[Anonymous]

People open up the more you spend time with them. How often do you see each other?


I totally get where you’re coming from (even though im the shy one in a relationship).. but guess what? My current boyfriend and i spend so much time together way from the start (just because we get along), and i end up being (too) comfortable around him by the first month we’re together. He’s the first guy that’s seen my “weird” and “goofy” side. I've been with a guy for a year but never reached that kind of feeling with him, because we didn't spend as much time in person at all.


Excite her, learn things she likes, learn the things she's been wanting to do, honestly just spend time with her more is where im going for lol.

[Vikkrram]

Buddy spend time with each other the more you know the more you would open up wid each other and not in texts in person

[Anonymous]

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