If a person is not your type, why would you pursue them in the beginning?

[Justneedtokno]

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Also, would you tell the person that they’re not your type?

[VIVANT]

I don’t think we need to Pursue just one type of person getting to know people is the point so we can see how it all works together…but if someone is making you feel not their type after the fact, that’s terrible and I’m sorry. You don’t deserve that. 💚

[SnowedIn]

@msc545 nailed it.

Plus "type" is overrated and not really useful. If you want to pursue them, there's something that's already attracting you to them so either "type" has been met or is irrelevant.

[msc545]

Thanks!

[legalboxers]

to see if I can change my perception on them

[legalboxers]

ty for MHO

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Challenge. Thrill. Just for it.

For me. Let me get interested in a girl first.😭

[Anonymous]

1. I don't have a "type". 2. How I see her mainly depends on HER. And if she changes my opinion of her can change.

[EaterPeter]

Not knowing what we want make us pursue anyone who may not be our type. Not knowing what is your type can make you do that.

[msc545]

Frequently you cannot tell if they are your type or not until you get to know them.

[Justneedtokno]

I see your point, but I don’t know

[Red_Arrow]

True, but if you pursue them after you get to know them, that is not in the beginning.

[msc545]

That's not really the point.

[ArrowheadSW]

Out of sexual attraction maybe?

[Justneedtokno]

I get that but I have sex with someone you’re not going to have a future with

[Zayed_]

Because they’re sexy

[Ms_Facesitter]

To learn whether or not he Is my type.

[NathanDavis]

I don't chase people

[Sixgunsound]

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I wouldn't.

[Alex8736]

i wouldn't

[Justneedtokno]

Exactly

[panamared1]

I married a not my type

[Justneedtokno]

Oh that sounds nice but you would never tell them that. What are you

[panamared1]

Human

[Justneedtokno]

Correction, you wouldn’t tell the person that’s not your type that information. For some, it may hurt their feelings.

[eagle1951]

wanting to get laid.

[Jennz6]

I wouldn’t