Girls and guys, After marriage, would you still stay with your spouse if he or she had a serious health issues: like paralyzed legs, cancer, etc. ?

[Anonymous]

No I will leave him / her

Yes I will stay with him / her

Other

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Good to know, YES answers. I had a bad opinion about modern feminist women. I think modern people both men and women are selfish. I came to know about some cases where husband abandoned wife and kids, wife abandoned husband and kids, kids abandoned parents. I hope more people understand what is the real purpose of marriage and family is. It's not money and sex. It's love, care and companionship.

[Guy13]

After marriage would I stay with a spouse who is severely disabled by medical issues? I assume you mean after a recent divorce, would I care for her? I am sorry if that happened to you, however, I am not a Nurse and I would have not asked for the divorce ill or not.

You are on your own, however, i may keep you on company insurance to supplement medicare/cade. I would never touch you again.

I would be more apt to work with and through your children and my voice is something you will never hear again.

[exitseven]

in sickness and in health was the deal.

[Asker]

😊☺️👏👏👏👏👏

[Gummy_Cluster]

I watched a sad movie. Hubby was in a horrible accident, and was a quadriplegic. He begged his wife to leave him, but that wasn't happening. She wasn't going anywhere. A deal is a deal. They say that necessity is the mother of invention, and from the neck up, things worked just fine. :)
It was a tearjerker movie, but that part was awesome.

[Asker]

@Gummy_Cluster nice! Which movie?

[Gummy_Cluster]

I tried to Google it, but I didn't know what key words to put in the search bar. I don't remember if he was in a hospital, or it was just a hospital bed they have at home. But the bed had a horizontal bar on top, and she used that to get in place. For lack of a better description, think of it as a bar to do chin-ups, but much lower. Obviously, the bar isn't necessary, but since it was there... lol

[exitseven]

RE Update I knew a guy that was a successful bodybuilder and he had just completed his MBA. He had gotten married and was probably around 25 or 26 years old. 6 months later he was out running one night and he got hit by a car. He was in a coma for weeks and hospitalized for months. He was confined to a wheel chair and suffered a little brain damage too. A few months later his wife divorces him. She said that it was not what she signed up for.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Red-Blaze]

If you marry someone its for who they are all the good and all the bad
You dont seprate at that time not even close when they need you the most, you take what happens and try the best for them
A marrige is an agreement going both ways for all the good and all the bad till death do us part

[Asker]

👏👏👏👏👏☺️

[Red-Blaze]

Thanks for MHO

[KrisPW]

I would like to think so, yes. I can handle anything physical, but I'm not sure I would be strong enough it he turned abusive and mean from it.

[Ligerzzero]

Half to answer this one based on all the fellow vets I know whose injuries put them in this situation.
And 90% of the wife’s left them, and on the flip side seen so many of the wife’s get disabled and at least the men loved them enough to stay

[Asker]

So you are saying most of the women run away in sickness. It means girls who voted Yes here are pretending to be good.

[Justneedtokno]

That’s the whole purpose of marriage, thick and thin

[KrakenAttackin]

@Justneedtokno. Which is why women file between 80-90% of divorces.

[Asker]

@KrakenAttackin I agree.

[Justneedtokno]

@KrakenAttackin 🤦🏾‍♀️ there are many different scenarios of why women have opted out of marriage. Doesn’t mean that there aren’t those that do you stay. Stop acting like there are men out there doing crazy malicious things as well.

[Justneedtokno]

The whole purpose of the question was why do you stay up with your partner? And yes, if you’re married, then that’s the purpose of it

[Pyrofox]

I'd stick if they promised to stay positive mentally.

[KrakenAttackin]

Most women will bounce when you need them the most.

[Cubus]

You have to be a piece of shit if you do not stay. Sorry for my language

[Preeti161101]

He/she needs you so definitely should be live with him/her and care of his/her

[rachel776]

if i was married yes of course

[Asker]

Good to know. I had a bad opinion about modern feminist women. I think modern people both men and women are selfish.

[LimitedBenefits101]

It's better to leave than stick with a person with illness.

[SnowedIn]

Without question.

[Gummy_Cluster]

I watched a sad movie. Hubby was in a horrible accident, and was a quadriplegic. He begged his wife to leave him, but that wasn't happening. She wasn't going anywhere. A deal is a deal. They say that necessity is the mother of invention, and from the neck up, things worked just fine. :)
It was a tearjerker movie, but that part was awesome.

[SnowedIn]

@Gummy_Cluster ... and then there's "Lady Chatterly's Lover"...

[Gummy_Cluster]

I think there were many versions of that, but I don't remember anyone being injured or sick.

[SnowedIn]

He still had a brat from the last visit to the hardware store

[Gummy_Cluster]

Nice!

[SnowedIn]

You, Ms. Gummy, have been missed.