I think older women are mature enough to understand my current situation. I don't have any problems in marrying an older woman if she supports and accepts me. I am serious about dating, creating a family and making babies. I will take a job later or we will plan it together.
I know young girls will not understand me and again I will waste my time explaining to them.
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I hope you have some assets cause women, especially older women, can smell a Stink a mile away. You better have your mess together and look really good.
On one hand I definitely agree that older women will handle certain situations better, because they’ve already gone through things younger women have yet to experience and just have a different approach to dating in general. However I would not say it makes them exempt of being either judgmental or unaccepting of a situation. I also wouldn’t want to imply that a younger woman is incapable of understanding your situation depending on what it is. Like off the bat, you not having a job in your 30s could be a red flag for any woman. But once you explain the circumstances it’s either going to be a hit or miss and it doesn’t matter what age the woman is.
You understood my point. I have had a chat with some girls, I told them upfront but they said NO. I am a honest guy, I don't want to start a relationship based on lies. I think clearly explaining your problem makes life easier.
* The only thing I have in my mind right now is to marry soon and / or find a job. The clock is ticking, I don't want to waste my time.
In all honesty, I think you’d have the best chance of finding a wife once you’re working again. Getting a woman to understand your situation and give you a fair chance isn’t hard, but unless she’s in a position to provide financially until you’re working then I wouldn’t envision marriage in the stars. With the way our economy is set up post-Covid, the cost of living only seems to be at an uptick, so ideally if you have a partner then it’s nice to have two incomes. Especially if, let’s say, you want children, that’s only going to add to finances. So before marrying into the possibility of struggling, drowning in debt and etc, she’d likely want you to start working or at least know that you’re searching in earnest for a new job.
Yes, you are right. But I am not completely zero. I have saved some money, which we can use it to buy a house. I want a little support from her until I get a job. It's only food and other bills. Otherwise I have to stay with my parents. I have shared this idea with my parents. They said fine, find a girl who understands your current situation or come and live with us. I am currently so ashamed of myself. I don't want to be dependent on anyone.
It’s great that you’ve socked up enough money to save for a house, but you may have to dip into that to provide for yourself while unemployed rather than having to get support from her. Like usually if a woman is providing financially, it’s a either a sugar baby situation or she was already with that guy before he lost his job and she’s holding things down until he’s working. So while I’m definitely not saying it’s impossible to find the sort of woman you’re looking for, I know it’ll be a bit more difficult to have someone sign up for that. We work best with silver linings.
I hope so. If I don't go to live with my parents then I have to live on the streets. My parents said son don't act like a fool, we are here to support you. We are not poor, find a good woman and will help you in buying a house. I thank god for giving me such a supportive parents.
Don’t be ashamed to move back home! Honestly, I see so many people in their 30s either moving back home or have never moved out. Making a living isn’t what it used to be.
You understood it right. But why don't other girls understand me? I am a simple guy. I don't own a house, car, I use public transport. I don't drink alcohol, I don't smoke, I don't take drugs. I wear non branded clothes. I saved money by living a simple life. Anyway I will move back to my home soon.😊 Thanks for sharing your opinion. We need more women like you.
Thank you! I appreciate that. Choosing to move back in with your parents is a good choice while you save. Try keeping in mind that it’s only temporary and you’re getting things in order for your future. Wishing you luck!
Sure, if they are suckers enough to do it.