What is the point of dating if it doesn't guarantee luck, but you have to be very attractive or good looking to get better results with dating. I am on good looking and has not very good experience both men & women with men previous relationship some previous ex boyfriend did cheater and other some ex boyfriend changed into a toxic person i didn't intend him to change but he did anyway and i was one that has broken up with some of previous relationship part from 2 but there college not serious. Also friend being friends with some girls did only use me to get closer to my previous boyfriend to temp them to cheat and i always girls friends always left me and found some else until i got a boyfriend then they right back to me but i didn't want them to be my friends at all and will keep refusing them and one did try to force a friendship with me and even know they are no good girls just mean girls. Here are some of my experiences with men and some girls. When I'm not interested in hooking up with strangers or having sex with them, I don't see the point. After trying Therapy multiple times, it hasn't resolved any of my questions as to why I want to have a boyfriend only when I'm single.
I think you have just had some bad luck in finding a guy. I know guys in your age group tend to be looking for hook-ups as they don't want to be held down to one place. Work/their career could take them anywhere, so they tend not to want to be in a relationship, and pardon the expression, anchored to any one location.
So you have a couple of choices:
Option 1) Keep dating and hopefully you find a guy close to your age that wants a relationship. It is the proverbial needle in a haystack and it could take a while before you find someone.
Option 2) Stop dating and perhaps you find the guy by luck someday.
Either way, it could be awhile before you meet someone. I know dating takes a lot of effort and patience, and if you're not into that, then I suggest taking a break and see if you meet a guy along the way, in your endeavors.
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The right guy will come around when he comes around you probably even know the person or knew him or someone you never met. but believe me when you meet the right person you will want to date and be intimate with him it just happens and happens like that so stop worrying about you want a long term relationship but don’t want to date that is absolutely normal and healthy everybody should have this attitude at least those who are looking for long term and leave the dating game to the players.
Enjoy being single nothing wrong with that why would you need one of those things anyway? A boyfriend, they are not husbands they risk nothing and want everything free loaders entitled for sex and manhood validation with a few exceptions of course but from what I see and hear these days that’s the majority. Good luck to you
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Well u can't get a longterm relationship without dating no?
Dating is to figure out if you want a long term relationship with the guy in the first place.
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