How to get a waitress to say yes to let me get to know her outside of her work so she can become my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

[BCRanger10]

I think your best bet would be to simply ask her out as you would any other woman. Not long before I joined G@G, I asked out a waitress at a restaurant I frequented. She said no and said it was because she already had a boyfriend. She did give me props for trying though.

[SnowedIn]

She probably just wants to be done with her work and go home.

But, be the nice guy. Tip well. Don't be a jerk. Talk about real things like a real human. Let HER become interested in you. Don't ask about boyfriends, husbands, sex, dates, etc.