How do you flirt with a cute waitress I really want to get her number?

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rachel776 · Accepted Answer

a gazillion guys are flirting with her all the time so don't do that. go in a few times a week during a quiet time at the restaurant. just be there and talk to her about anything except dating or how pretty she is or anything sexual. she will notice you as someone different and it will get her attention

annabananna · Accepted Answer

Put your number on the ticket at the end.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

You make jokes with her and get her laughing. That is very endearing to most women.

Then you ask her if she enjoys going out to othr restaurants and checking out other waitresses. More joking.

Then you ask her about her favorite cuisine. Does she like Italian? Mexican? Seafood.

Suppose she says she prefers seafood. Then you ask what is her favorite seafood restaurant, and she says it is Cedar River Seafood. You say, "Oh, I'd love to go there, but I hate eating alone. Would you like to have dinner with me sometime soon at your favorte seafood restaurant?"

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Invite her to a special event cause the chances of her participating are higher than if you directly ask for a date, she will probably say no due to being busy at work or not available for a relationship but once you learn what day is free, you can invite her to an event that happens on her off day. Be aware, probably 80% or more have boyfriends since girls in food service usually have a lot of guys chasing them due to superior looks.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Don't try at all, if you are interested you can leave YOUR number on the receipt and do nothing beyond that. If she is interested in you will keep it, if not will toss it.

Avicenna · Answer

Just be complimentary and find a way to quickly engage her in a convo

Guy13 · Answer

Ask her for her number.

blissinanarchy1 · Answer

It’s a bit more difficult with waitresses. Especially at a place serving alcohol. Guys go in there, wanna impress their buddies, and flirt all the time with the girls. They don’t want to lose their tip, so they tolerate it. Manners is probably the most important thing. You should have manners regardless, but saying “Please, thank you” and showing kindness will put you on the right path. Don’t be overwhelming. You act too friendly, it’ll make you seem desperate, understand that there are plenty of other women in the world. Make her laugh, leave a decent tip.

Gummy_Cluster · Answer

John: I just switched from iPhone to Android, and I think I made a mistake.

Waitress: Why?

John: Lots of reasons, but mainly the contacts list.

Waitress: Just press on the icon, and it will show you your contacts.

John: I did that, but why isn't your number showing up?

1. She will smile

2. She will help you get her number in your contacts list.

3. She will tell you to kick rocks.

Who cares, at least you tried, and that's more than most people.

Adaeva · Answer

My guess is she is out of your league and, in that case, you cannot. 1. Write your number on the receipt and ask her to call you if she would like another boyfriend. 2. Ask her if she would like to have another boyfriend. She is not going to say "yes, but if she says "maybe" give her your number and ask her to call you.

If you don't receive positive results, never ask again. However, off and on, you can continue to let her serve you and should she change her mind, she will let you know.

MrOracle · Answer

You REALLY have to keep the flirting light, and if she isn't laughing and flirting back with you, then she's not interested, and you need to move on. Focus on making her laugh, and having general conversation, and getting her comfortable talking to you. Remember that LOTS of guys will be flirting with her, so you have to stand out - by not being so sexually aggressive.

If you can do SMALL things to help her out, do it. Don't try to do any huge gestures - again, keep it light and small, at least until she's showing some real interest, and if you've been going at it for a couple of weeks and she hasn't warmed up to you, then forget it and move on.

lightbulb27 · Answer

she may get this all the time and from the time you start showing interest, you have 2 seconds to convince her. So, be on your best "energy" engaging with her, showing interest, without "asking her". Engage her in conversation. as that dialog goes well, express you'd be interest in talking more with her.

You don't want to make her feel trapped, but let her decide.

the dynamic changes based upon the two people and where they are in life.

It's an awkward position for her, so she may just say she has a boyfriend. Also keep in mind that how she feels will reflect on her answer, try to assess if she is having a good day. If not, just be like an understanding partner, and let her be.

The biggest part of this is to get out of your selfish head and into her emotion. Be other focused.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Where do you live? From what I understand it's almost become a crime to look in a woman's direction. 😂

My best advice is to just start talking to her. If she can only be distracted to make someone a drink real fast and keeps coming back just to talk with you... hit her up for her number and take it from there.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Well waitresses are friendly people, and they really have to be friendly to the customers. So you might want to see if she is already "taken" first. I dated a waitress who I met at the restaurant that she worked at, a long time ago. However I did some research ahead of time to see if she was dating anyone at the time. And she definitely came across to me as "being interested" and not just friendly because it was her job.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

She gets guys trying to flirt with her all the time. She won’t be impressed. Make eye contact, be friendly, and talk yo her like a normal person. Show genuine interest. Don’t push it. Take a long view: Come back later and pick up the conversation.

loveslongnails · Answer

First you should find out if she's even available or interested in dating. What if she's in a relationship or already involved? If she's involved, there's no real point in approaching her. To do this, you may have to very discreetly ask one of her co-workers. I have an approach if she isn't, but I'm not going to spill it to all the women on here. LOL You can message me.

Emiliamazing · Answer

Remember, she is there to earn tips 😊. No doubt she is proficient at flirting. Take a different angle than other guys/gals and make yourself memorable. Don't be let down if you find out she is already taken.

SpokenTruth · Answer

Not even worth the effort you ware wasting your time. You will take serious risks flirting with her or any female for that matter and if anything she will give to you the same fake phone number same fake answers or whatever else she gave to every other guy before you and then it's the next guy.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I would not flirt. She probably gets that lameness all the time. She will smile, because that will maximize her tips, but she might secretly loath the guys who do it. Instead just be normally conversational. She will probably see you are different from the rest of the jokers who go there if you try this.

Surely · Answer

I have seen it many times. That a guy who was lucky enough to hook up with a barmaid. Would then hang around at her work and make an ass out of himself and sometimes would almost cost her, her job!
If you were to “get lucky” and get a date with her. Hang out somewhere else while she is working. Because as others have said. The more she flirts at work. The more money she makes!

dinojames22 · Answer

Don't. 99% chance she gets harassed by every other dumbass who wants her number. She's there do to a job. Show some respect and leave it at that. You'll just be bothering her when you try some "can I get your number" line. You could actually be getting her in trouble. Best idea. Leave yours on the table when you leave so she can throw it out without drama.

lifexp · Answer

Don't use cheesy lines, just talk normally to her, don't have a hidden agenda cause she can see right though that shit. HAng at the bar and have a conversation with her that won't be interupted by other patrons. Ask her about her interests and hobbies etc. build a reproar with her. Then mention that it was nice chatting but you have to go. Come back the next day and ask what she is doing after work.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Just like talk to her like a regular person. If she’s into you she’ll give you her contact info before she goes back on shift.

exitseven · Answer

come back and eat or drink there 3 or 4 nights in a row and try to engage her in conversation. She will know you are interested.

Anonymous · Answer

Eye contact, natural smile, polite manners, be helpful towards her where you can, show an interest by asking friendly questions about her if you feel like it’s natural enough to. Being confident enough without it feeling too unnatural.

Anonymous · Answer

She depends on tips. She's being paid to be nice to you. Hitting on waitresses because you can't tell sincere interest from tip-seeking good service, is a scummy move. Give her your number if you want but don't ask for hers.

rabbitzzz · Answer

Like this maybe

AydenHazor · Answer

Don't. She is stuck having to be polite to her customers and flirting with her when she is stuck in the interaction and can't even speak her mind without getting in trouble with her place of employment is manipulative bs

slatyb · Answer

Do you know her name? First introduce yourself. Go back and greet her when you arrive. Then ask her out.

es20490446e · Answer

The thing that has worked for me the best is making easygoing spicy hilarious jokes. For example: "I would like you to make me drunk"

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

"Do you make sex on the beach? I like to make the sex on the beach. Is nice!"

jshm2 · Answer

Don't She's in the job for the money, not the wannabe dates.

In_Trance · Answer

Bruh...

DaveToo · Answer

Yup, leave her alone. She is working and doesn't need to have to deal with someone trying to get in her shorts.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

I wouldn't bother. Putting someone on the job in the spot like that when they just want to make a living is a pain in the ass to them.

MadAndBankrupt · Answer

Tell her that you want to take her on a date. Plain and simple, Honestly could put you a mile away

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I would like to know what @VegasRunner said in response to @Rachel776. Since apparently someone likes to censor people's opinions.

krin_m · Answer

Go there often (not every day, that would be stalking), talk to her, be interested in her and don't be pushy or vulgar. If she is still not interested, let it go.

LivingExample · Answer

Just ask her for it. The biggest thing she can say is No!

BJP21 · Answer

Leave a really good tip and name and number on the bill.

boobliker · Answer

just ask her for it and call her right away to see if it is and say thank you in a text

KrakenAttackin · Answer

She likely gets hit on constantly. Good luck.

Mayo503 · Answer

That be telling … Can you work that out yourself…?

Iron_Man · Answer

Just talk friendly to her get her phone number

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Just say what hole do you want it in first 😆 just kidding

Manuel2 · Answer

You see how much she charges for the service and your tips

msc545 · Answer

This mostly doesn't work - but go ahead and try - gently and carefully.

Guardian45 · Answer

Good Luck! She probably gets hit on a LOT! TURN ON your charm & wit!

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Look in to her eyes chat flirt make her laugh nice tip never hurt and ask her out

Twalli · Answer

Ask if when her shift ends you can take her out somewhere.

TheAfrikan · Answer

Basically you can compliment her maybe about her walk or anything you find attractive.

Theonlyolympian · Answer

First complementing is a key factor and then secondly pick it up a bit

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

Smirk at'er. And in a brief quote, ask'er.(b4, She gets "too busy")

Anonymous · Answer

She has no interests with you, the reason why they flirt so they can get bigger tips from you

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t know maybe leave your number on the receipt

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Have you tried flashing your tits at her?

Kira-kayy · Answer

Make her laugh. And tip well :D

ENGLISHlearnerBOY · Answer

I dont know coz ı ve never have a waitress

Ella2522 · Answer

Make Jokes with her and get her laugh lol

Anonymous · Answer

Yup, leave her alone.

Cheerfull009 · Answer

If you get, then send me also

jimmy2 · Answer

She probably heard it All

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