Why are people afraid (especially guys) to hurt women's feelings by telling them the truth?

[Anonymous]

It really bothers me that women have no problem telling men how they're not entitled to be loved or how if they're shy, unattractive or unemployed, they're basically undesirable to women...

BUT

Men won't return the favor with honesty. When a woman comes on here and says

... How do i look?

... am i still attractive to men at 35 as i was at 20?

... will i ever get married (even though i wasted my 20s hooking up instead of marrying in my 20s)

The simps come out telling her

... oooh, you're still so beautiful..

... ignore them, you deserve better..

... i don't care that you are older and heavier, you're still so beautiful...

It's pathetic.

WHY ARE MEN CODDLING WOMEN?

WHY ARE THEY AFRAID TO TELL WOMEN THAT YOU AREN'T AS ATTRACTIVE AT 35 AS YOU WERE AT 25.

Updates

+1 y

Thank you for the opinions. I didn't want to imply people should be mean to women, but just that men shouldn't white knight or coddle women. Women have no problem telling men off but men usually treat women like they were talking to children, with kid gloves. Women should be nicer to men and men should be more honest to women.

[Capricornunicorn92]

I'm not quite sure but I for one would prefer to hear the truth. I'm 31 so I know my value has gone down compared to a 20 something year old and I am honestly fine with that. Do I sometimes wish I had started looking for a husband in my 20s? Yes. Do I know it's going to be a lot harder finding one now that I'm in my 30s? Yes.

But I'm confident enough that I will find the right guy who will love me at my current age. The guy that I'm with now I think could be the one but it's too early to tell.

[xJayleenx]

Those women are mean man im sorry for whoever went through that

[lightbulb27]

I say the truth of what I see, but I agree with the statements made... often. I think women often get better as they revolve around the sun, maturity and confidence trumps looks.

it's ok if you think otherwise, no problem...

but this is online, I try to favor being uplifting. It's easy to be brutal, it's work to be a decent person online.

[Freyke]

I will always ask if they want my honest opinion or some opinion. Following with "you have been warned" I am not afraid. I actually enjoy it if they get mad over my opinion because they do it to themselves. And it's not like my opinion is phrased as an insult.

[Guy13]

I am not but in a gentle and helpful way.

[Anonymous]

Say who? I have no problem telling her like it is. But talking a woman is like to talking to a full grown kid. Kid don't listen, kids don't heed good advice. I'm just simply not going to waste my time if she give me pushback. Like kids, MOST women eventually learn. They just got to touch a hot stove, get burned a few times.

[DarkLegacy]

Yes they are. They prefer to lie or white knight but im honest

[Jamie05rhs]

Because women are weak, and we don't want to push them over the edge and cause them to commit suicide.
Most men are jerks, including myself, but we're not evil. We don't want to be cruel.