Have you ever been too scared to ask someone out?

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CB-Raido-Time · Accepted Answer

Yes absolutely. Starting in elementary school there were girls in my class and I would try hard but I couldn't force myself to approach them much less talk to them I could literally feel and hear my pulse pounding in the throat when trying to go though with approaching them. Then I'd get all mad and disappointed myself. I would go home thinking about the day and night all day all night.

When I got to high school 9th grade I saw this girl and I wanted to talk to her bad and I couldn't do it. One morning I decided to down a half a bottle of whiskey to help me get up the courage to talk to her. I got to school and still couldn't do it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

When I was younger. Then after I accepted I was probably going to be rejected I stopped caring what the answer is. I mean either she wants to go out with me and we're off, or she doesn't want to go out with me and I can move on. There are 3.5 billion women on the planet. In that respect she is not special. No reason to be scared. Still no one likes rejection. So you do your recon. And only ask her out if you truly feels she's worth it. But honestly I don't ask hardly any women out. I let them ask me. Because I've yet to be rejected by a woman who's asked me out yet.😆

Agirlinneedhelp · Accepted Answer

Yes, but looking back at it, I wish I did. Like, I should've just done it, we could've both had nice memories out of it instead of thinking about what could've happened.

whtclutgrl · Accepted Answer

only once, she was tall, dark hair, and so beautiful, but she did say yes

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Yes, when I was 15 years old. By my early 20's, I had developed self-confidence and had no hestation to ask a girl for a date.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, there was a girl I knew when I was 16. I knew she liked me and she used to come and visit me. I really was in love with this girl and I was too afraid to make a move. I went away to college and I met a girl that I thought was cute. We hung out a lot and everyone told me that she liked me but I was too afraid to tell her. After a while she went out with some other guy so I had to do something or else she would be gone. I went to see her and finally told her how I really felt about her. It turns out she felt the same way about me.

AmeerX · Answer

Actually, despite my shyness and hesitancy, I for one really was pretty forth coming even though I did not get reciprocating replies 🤣. Other guys used the more, friend zone approaches which failed miserably. So, at least my way wasn't as sneaky 😁

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

Yes, I regret not trying to come out of my zone. My insecurities and low self-esteem were really holding me back... still are when I don't feel good about myself.

serious · Answer

No, I have never been scared. I never asked because I never wanted too. I am never going to ask anyone out.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Scares the shit out of me every single time. I've pulled some hot ass girls, but I can hit homers all day and still be shaking when I'm up to bat

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

Not too scared that I don't do it but scared yes when I was younger. Only with the few I knew that my feelings were genuine.

Sasha0426 · Answer

Yes! Hell, I’m even afraid to tell a guy I like him. It’s not because of rejection. It’s mostly how horribly he’ll react. I didn’t have a very good experience with men.

NathanDavis · Answer

not scared, no... just indecisive  way back in my late teens

loveslongnails · Answer

Back in high school, this was true but not since then. What's the worst that can happen - you get rejected? Big deal.

AdithyaR · Answer

Basically everytime. Hence why I've never asked someone out.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope. That's why I get more dates than my male acquaintances who are waaaaayyyyy better looking than I am.

AsaKyo · Answer

Not really, because I'm used to being rejected anyway

red324 · Answer

Yeah I always think the situation isn't ideal so I don't do it.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe when i was younger but can't remember, it is like this if she accepts good you have an extra change if not she can go fuck herself never tie yourself too much to the ideea of a woman that did not gave any signs she wants a serious thing

Twalli · Answer

That was the reason why I stayed single as long as I did.

Jltakk · Answer

Of course. Though it was more shaming myself into not bothering.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Extremely thats why I literally never do it

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes, high school.

zagor · Answer

Only for the first 25 years of my life.

msc545 · Answer

Oh hell yes. Many times!

Anonymous · Answer

Yes pretty much every day

stratford · Answer

Many times

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Oh ya

In_Trance · Answer

Nope

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