What Do You Think Of People Who Want To Date You After They've Rejected You?

[anon1903]

im referring to indecisive people who play it hot and cold. they know you like them, they stay friends with you, and on a later date they confess being happy with your earlier feelings and wanting you.

[petitedollbabee]

I’ve experienced this once. A guy played hot and cold with me for a year, rejecting me and acting like he wasn’t interested , then next minute when he’s drunk he’s telling me he’s in love with me, it was so confusing. In the end I made myself lose feelings for him because he was so indecisive. Right before I moved cities, he told me he loves me and he wants me to stay, and my exact words were “tough luck, you had your chance” 😂

[AdithyaR]

Yeah no. If someone rejects me, I will make sure to purge all those feelings and give up all hopes of a relationship out of respect for the pre existing friendship. So if they choose to come back at a later date, I'd already be past it and I'd just wanna stay friends.

[dreamstar72]

I feel a little bad because I concerned myself as being the last choice. It something like a SO called friend who only wants to hung out with you when they have nothing else to do. Do you really them in your life.

[Still-alive]

I'd consider it if they gave me a good explanation. if its just 'wow you look hotter!'

nope im out lol

[Still-alive]

im likely to not accept because i would feel like they ran out of other options and im the last one they thought of smh

[anon1903]

I fancied a guy who was in a relationship. He never responded to my feelings but he said I always made him nervous. And yes it flattered me. I'm too easy lmao.

[anon1903]

FYI, I'd never act on my feelings knowing the one I'm crushing on already has someone and that person hasn't consented to this.

[NathanDavis]

I've never had this experience

but I would never try to be friends with someone I'd be falling for...

either I am a true friend to you, or none... lol

[FireFox001]

I only have one answer to them, which is this:

[DarkLegacy]

This sounds like modern women who have just hit 30. I tell them where to go because im there hanging on a peg.

[Pete671]

I'd think they were rejected by people they preferred to be with, and they want to date me to get a free meal and drinks,,,

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I'd be over them by then and end the friendship. They had their choice. I'm not some consolation.

[Katie329]

I personally dont like these psychology games and i will not go with it.

[Reorx]

Too bad, she had her chance & blew it. There's never another chance with a man like me.

[Tstrbrainer]

Never experienced that, but sounds really confusing

[CandyRat]

I don't like them.

[shortster]

I wish they would just go on a date with me.

[Europa789076]

I lose interest in those people.

[Jmmmfi4]

They can go jump off a cliff

[swettannie]

Dumb!