What do you think is the most important trait in a women for dating?

[Anonymous]

[PizzaDaddyo]

It’s funny you ask me this a couple years ago I would shrug my shoulders and say, “good vibes”. Never thought I’d say this but, Loyalty is # 1.


Good vibes are great… but,… no they’re just good. We want great or nothing! Now what makes things great? Hmm?


Attraction? Well, duh! May be great at first but you can’t sustain anything base off of looks alone. Definitely fell for women easily in the past so I’m more cautious and aware of my needs.


Chemistry? Nah! And I can tell you why! First of all, I know you’re thinking, this guy is nuts! How is chemistry not the most important thing? Okay, chemistry is the connection; two of you have a no one else will share, fact. Chemistry to me is more important than attraction in the long run but , simply put, you can have the bestest most graceful connections and relations with this woman but, without Loyalty; your Chemistry is chicken shit.


Loyalty wins. It is the most difficult level of status in the relationship because it doesn’t happen overnight. This doesn’t mean it is impossible to achieve smoothly it may just take some time and some patience, and of course, being loyal. Chris Brown has a song y’all should give a good listen; a little number call, “These hoes ain’t loyal”. Jokingly, all the players and fuck boys don’t care (as much) as you’d may think about looks because to them, because they just wanna fuck then throw you to the sharks because that’s how they think. But, players have an arsenal of girls that are still loyal to them because of whatever reasons the woman fancy's. Guys get butt hurt tho when they see a woman they fancy pleasing someone else in the form the slightest of forms, divided attention.


I will say 2nd is definitely respect. Not just respect itself but the act of making him feel respected feels so amazing as a man; it is a need to feel respect as a man and mostly from him woman.


So for me it is loyalty, respect, chemistry, great vibes, attraction.

[TheorionMage]

To research what behaviors you will 'reward' from a Suitor.
'Dating' at its core function is to decide upon what YOU will NOT negotiate
in a potential lifelong companion.
Otherwise, they're just a 'convenience' until better comes along---

[Azbionica]

I think the most important trait is humility, especially as you get older. When you are dating men, especially when you are no longer this young woman, you have to understand that men no longer feel marriage is important, and that there isn't a need for them to put up with games and manipulation. If you stay humble, independent, sincere, honest, and are able to articulate your needs and wants, then you listen to what a man has to say, you should be able to find value and state that through sincere observation and communication. No one wants to listen to everything about you and you don't know a thing about them. Stop talking, start listening. Compliment their goals, their experiences, their Visage. Use the golden rule and just treat them as you would your very best friend. In my world, at 49, I want someone who is intellectually my match, whose personality doesn't clash with mine, who I can spend many hours with without feeling the need to get away because I don't really "mesh". Money, property, status can disappear in an instant, but having a best friend who turns into a partner will insure many days and nights of delight and fun, which ultimately, is happiness, right? I've never heard someone say on their deathbed, I should have worked more, I should have made more money, I should have found a better looking partner, I should have built an empire.. no, they say, I wished I had spent more time on my health, with my family, with my loved one.. it ultimately boils down to the quality of life you end up with almost inevitably boils down to health and loved ones, the only two true measures of wealth that matter in the end. Not money, not work, not status, it's health and love, and family can be made from relationships withstanding time.

[anon1903]

In general, I think boundaries is important in dating.

[jennifer_bloom]

Dignity is the most valuable trait

[FilmGuy93]

Honesty/general trustworthiness.

That is such a rare trait. If a woman I’m seeing proves herself to be trustworthy, she has instantly made herself more desirable than the vast majority of her competition.

[Asker]

That’s so true! Honesty is a trait that can’t be overlooked in both a partner and friend.

[Anonymous]

Good vibes, fun, but respect the man.

These girls that think they have to outsmart the man all the time are their own worst enemy. The uber-fems, that “don’t need no man” and echo all the popular media narratives.

Just respect the man’s view and his role in the relationship. Nobody is better than anyone else. Just humble yourself, you know? It’s ridiculous.

[PhantomMenace22]

Kindness, empathy and intelligence. Their ability to care.. and I mean really care about other people and how other's feel. I can't be around people that only give a shit about themselves.

[FireGodGoesSeeknFire]

I used to answer this question with "girl parts, preferably all of them and none of the other"

But, I fear now people would interpret as hate speech without a bunch of qualifiers.

[Miristheiss]

Feminine

Honest

Loyal

Soft

Nurturing

Kind

Good Values

Family is her number one priority

[D_Bone_Steak]

Not being obese... is that so much to ask.

Apparently, it is.

[Anonymous]

She needs to be making 135k a year at least. She needs to be in shape at 5"11 and 120lb. She has to take me shopping and provide for our kids.

[TrueConfection]

See... What's wrong with 5'10 and 3/4? I'm never going to find a man no matter how much money I have because they all want these super tall women. I give up.

[Opinion Owner]

@TrueConfection I can't date a woman shorter than me.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the guy's goals in dating. If he's looking for casual hookups, the answer will be different than if he's dating to find a life partner.

[Ben487]

I agree with the other comment. Its chemistry and maybe adaptability.

[LiamJHayden]

Saying "Yes." when I ask. After that, how well we get along.

[Avicenna]

Compatibility

[Anonymous]

Large boobs without being fat and not being a gold digger

[asphaltrhymes]

Low-key but quietly calm personality ☺️☺️☺️

[asphaltrhymes]

Edit: with additional upbeat attitude. 😋😋😋👀👀👀👀

[slatyb]

Sexual compatibility.

[ColHathi]

Chemistry. Does that count?

[Asker]

That counts. Since if both partners understand each other and work with each other. If it were that they didn’t do both then it wouldn’t work out

[Fuentes]

How phat the ass is

[Dreamclouds]

intelligence by far...

[bamesjond0069]

Submissive personality.

[Anonymous]

An innie pussy