He hasn’t messaged me in two days the he messaged me at 10pm saying he just finished work. is he still interested?

[Anonymous]

Been on 5 dates so far. But it’s been 10 days since I last saw him and he hasn’t planned a further date. I thought he was losing interest because of the lack of communication (he never ever calls) but he texted me at around 10 pm saying he just finished for the day. What should I think? Is he still interested?

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1 y

That was the entire conversation 2 days ago. He hasn’t messaged me since then. It’s like he messages every 2 days..

[Vikkrram]

I don't know he might be super busiy but i would say you and him went on 5 dates but still he didn't message you every day. I wouldn't say a long chat is needed but at least at night he should have asked that how's your day? How's been going?

[Asker]

He never asks me that. Is that a red flag?

[Vikkrram]

Kind off , look i don't know what's goin wid him is he really that super buisy but i would have seen it as a red flag.

[spartan55]

Is there something stopping you from messaging him, or making plans?

[noohair]

Stop expecting a text to be like talking face to face. Don't text him and see what happens.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

So? Give him a call.

[In_Trance]

He's married

[Asker]

Lol what makes you think that?

[In_Trance]

why else would he not respond?

[Asker]

He works a lot

[In_Trance]

It takes 10 seconds to sent you a text...