Good question. I always suggest the same thing that I would do to keep a conversation rolling on a date. Works both ways for talking to girls or us talking to guys. I am a pretty bubbly person as it is and have not shortage of things I can talk about. However, that isn't the point to just have someone listen to me drone on.
So, even before the first date, you are likely to know a few things about the person you are going to go out with. In your head, think of maybe three things that you know they find interesting. Perhaps they are into sports. Maybe they like travel.
Those are all great things to discuss because they can lead to a longer conversation. Let's say the girl you like enjoys traveling. You can use that as a point of conversation and mix in your own travel experiences. It is all about relating you and her experience that can lead to a good conversation.
If that dies off, you can bring up the next thing. So, by trying to introduce conversation about something they are interested in, she will be more likely to want to talk about it at greatly length. Also, location of date is key. You want somewhere that you can really pay attention to the person. So, not somewhere loud or where your attention would wander. Hope this helps.
Sometimes you can't but conversation enders are a problem. I can relate as I used to be that way, and both need to want it to keep going to keep it going.
Example you say "Hi" to someone, "How are you doing?" if the answer is "Fine." that conversation is hard to keep going, they've shown they don't want it to from that side.
If however you've been talking about a few things and the conversation dies a natural death. You can't really keep that going, but you can find a new conversation to start up later.
By listening to what they say and asking questions like a kid would do.. why? How? But fluff it up in a way that shows genuine interest in trying to find out more about what they saying. Basically, just listen., And show interest
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Just ask questions. Just remember that it's a good opportunity to find out things about the other person. Things you might be curious about. You want know unless you ask. Then if they answer that question and you find it interesting just roll with that.
Just remember that people love talking about themselves.
Practice makes perfect and just remember she’s a person just like you
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