Boyfriend can’t take criticism. Am I wrong?

Anonymous
We got into a fight recently which he made worse. I was annoyed at him and he felt I shouldn’t be annoyed and he was trying to “stand his ground” which made the fight worse.

I ended up sending him a no holes barred text basically saying he needs to grow up his behaviour isn’t normal and I said he is ruining our relationship and I was kind of angry so I said he’s too thick to understand this. And I basically said he’s not a good boyfriend and he needs to improve hugely. Basically I didn’t care if it hurt him he needed to know directly.

Since then he’s been crying since that text but am I wrong? I told him it was a text to make him improve and grow not to take it defensively
Boyfriend can’t take criticism. Am I wrong?
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