I ended up sending him a no holes barred text basically saying he needs to grow up his behaviour isn’t normal and I said he is ruining our relationship and I was kind of angry so I said he’s too thick to understand this. And I basically said he’s not a good boyfriend and he needs to improve hugely. Basically I didn’t care if it hurt him he needed to know directly.
Since then he’s been crying since that text but am I wrong? I told him it was a text to make him improve and grow not to take it defensively