Would you be in Poly or Open Relationship?

Question

I couldn’t.

Genie23 · Accepted Answer

No. I am content with one. I don't need more. I don't have time for another person. I don't have any interest and love to give one to another person. The thought of me or my partner getting close to someone else is disturbing and disgusting to me.

Reddy4it · Accepted Answer

I am…

Pleasuredom · Answer

let’s look at some statistics real quick. 65% of marriages fail, and it’s usually due to cheating 50% of all people in relationships have admitted to cheating at one time or another the odds of having a happy relationship or not in your favor for monogamy, the thing about poly and open relationships is it’s not just one way to do it. It’s whatever the two people in that relationship decide works best for them. It’s completely customizable. Monogamy is pretty much straightforward. That’s how it is me personally if I were in a relationship with a woman and a lot of women today are openly bisexual. I would tell her to have as many female friends as she wants and I don’t have to be a part of that unless she decides she wants me to be a part of it and just become a part of it once doesn’t mean that it’ll be a continuous thing , and outside of that if we wanted to explore other people together as a couple and that be great, but I would only ever enter into such a thing if it was what both sides absolutely wanted. If one side enters into it because that’s what they think the other side wants send that just leaves room for resentment later on down the line and then that is also destined to fail.

smashleyy · Answer

No to poly. I think if I was in a long term relationship (10+ years maybe less) and we wanted to try new things I might be open to trying a open relationship and/or swinging. I wouldn’t be able to just jump into it from the beginning of a relationship though cause I do think it’s important to build a strong bond with your partner and I don’t see that happening without time for one on one commitment. Me and said partner would also have to be 100% sure in ourselves, good communication, good boundaries etc

JustMeL120 · Answer

Poly yes open no. If i love a man i dont mind sharing him with people who would make him happy and whom he truly love and respect. But i am not ok with a man i love having sex with random strengers without me knowing them who he doesn't care about.

Lionman95 · Answer

No especially an open relationship is a deal breaker because that just seems to be like an invitation to sleep around.
I'm also not fond of a poly relationship because I've never seen in work out long-term and to be a relationship should be able to go at least 5 years.

Berethor · Answer

Polyamory with two bisexual girls maybe, I am not going to agree with adding another guy.

Finchie40 · Answer

No way , to me it’s not even a relationship , it’s 2 selfish people using each other , I wouldn’t be excited that my girl is out getting plowed by some other guy and I don’t think she would be excited about me banging some other girl , so I don’t see how someone can be alright with their partner being with someone else and why they are t worried about STD’s is beyond me

razelove · Answer

Polygamous maybe in the future. I've been in several in the past, they were fun, though tend to be short lived because of jealousy, or being very casual. Right now I don't want that though. I have a family and want to raise my kids in a two parent household, besides that doing so would take time, attention, and resources away from my family.

I've known other people who were poly with kids, and I'm not judging, it's just not for me right now.

billmunch · Answer

Yes, because I've been cheated on in every relationship I've ever had and I've never ended a relationship because of it. A terrible attitude can ruin a relationship though.

I know most guys would have a complete meltdown if their wife or SO was having sex with other guys or wanted to. However, I'm not like that at all.

Anyway, if my wife/SO wants sex outside the relationship, there's no need to sneak around. Just don't fuck my friends or get pregnant

LazerBean · Answer

No. It doesn't even make sense to be in a relationship at that point.

slatyb · Answer

I probably could. I'm not that emotional about sex. I like it, but I don't have a strong reaction to the thought of my partner being with someone else.

ARWINGx1 · Answer

Between those 2, I'd say that an Open Relationship's a "milder poison". Because anyone who's into Polyamory, might as well NOT marry anyone to begin with.

chrissykerdock · Answer

i guess someone pretty as you must constantly being tempted and offers... me i'm lucky i get one person to like me

Paige90 · Answer

I have done it and it worked for me. Some people it probably won't work but I am not one of them;

AsaKyo · Answer

No, I'd like to have one guy only and not share him with other women

Quackthulu2 · Answer

I don’t waste my time on monogamous partners anymore. Way too much drama.

Juneberry91 · Answer

Nope, my friends that are involved with that always turns out to be a shit show. I’ve seen way too many people being torn apart because of it.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

My jealousy only gets triggered by any and all men getting some of my vaginas. They're mine back off.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Im territorial but im also a flirt. Maybe emotionally but never physically

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

No, ... maybe with the right partner... but probably not.

MsTaniaUncensored · Answer

Not for me. I do not like to share my lover with other women.

Kori1236 · Answer

Nope. I don’t share nor do I want to be shared if I’m seeing someone I expect exclusivity

menina · Answer

Absolutely not! I want to be with one person only.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I could not. I like to focus my attention on one person.

Levin · Answer

No ma'am. Although having my own hareem sounds quite appealing.

mommymommymommy · Answer

A poly relationship, is "just friends". No matter how you slice it. Why would you want to be "in a relationship" if you're going to have sex with a bunch of others

warsevf · Answer

I have been with a couple they are fine with it, its very hot sexually for me, i have yet to see emotionally. But i am okay with vanilla, whatever my partner wants, that's what i think

Unit1 · Answer

Yeah, considering I too would be polygamous in these things. So long until I find another girl, that wants mutual monogamy.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

I am. But not open or poly like anything goes. I have two girlfriends and regularly date other women. They do not see other people. I'd say it's the best situation tbh.

Juxtapose · Answer

Not unless I was extremely comfortable with them and wanted to do some kinky shit but have them come home with me at the end of the day.

VikingWarLord · Answer

You say you wouldn't because you've been brainwashed into the Monogamy Cult. Had you grown up in the Indigenous Native American tribes (many were polyamorous), you would've seen it much differently.

Pinay_ako · Answer

H E L L  N O

Guanfei · Answer

No, never. If I'm not enough for my girlfriend, then I'll let her go. I'm very exclusive, it's me and my girlfriend, no more.

Hanrej · Answer

Of sorts perhaps. I don't have the energy to chase girls outside of my own relationship but if my partner wants to play around it's fine.

humanearth · Answer

Tried it once when I was young, guess what IT DIDN'T WORK Imagine that, it didn't work out

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope. My definition of a romantic relationship does not allow for such a thing.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Sure. The Qur’ān bans polygyny not, but it’s hard to find women who are for it.

Anonymous · Answer

it wasn't exactly open. i told her i was ok with her "getting it out of her system" during our engagement. she took full advantage.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I am secure enough in who I am that I could be in a open relationship at this point of my life, yes.

AimeeKyle · Answer

No, that’s not for me. I would be open to having 3-somes (2 guys & a girl or 2 girls & a guy) as long as we were all engaged (I wouldn’t be one to watch)

Miristheiss · Answer

No. I would dump them if they brought it up.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Why be in the relationship if your can do what you want just be friends with benefits at that point

Chris2254 · Answer

If girls don't have any issue then I don't mind being in a poly relationship

worldscolide · Answer

No, Why would i be in an objectively failed relationship?

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

SusanColleen · Answer

No way, never

comekitty · Answer

No, I wouldn't

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

I cannot. One person is enough.

Summeroflove · Answer

Oh hell no

Anonymous · Answer

No. That only ends up with the girl getting run through and the guy almost never getting anything elsewhere. Only a simp asshat would do that shit.

Justmeagain1 · Answer

I would not be ok with this.

blueebirds · Answer

Not for me, thank you.

Simslover92 · Answer

Nope I get too jealous as well.

Anonymous · Answer

No, that’s disgusting and sexually deviant.

Anonymous · Answer

Like share my girl with a second or third guy , no thanks 🤮

Jennz6 · Answer

Poly because I need lots of company 🥰💃🚢

KaceyAppleJ88 · Answer

@britney04 I would be in a poly and open relationship too so yes. 😘

SawerBrown · Answer

Most likely not the long term

elizamichale1 · Answer

Open open n open

Jazzy54 · Answer

Not my thing. I’m monogamous.

pervertedjester · Answer

I don't share.

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